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Author:  VIKINGS [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  What to reply?
I am so confused at this point(don't be afc, show value, dhv, neg, push-pull...etc, AHH fuck it all!:( ) that I've no clue how to answer a simple quetion. Heck I don't even know anymore if this one is a shit test or just a legitimate question. So here's the thing, I'll try to keep it short.

Another online girl, we just started talking 2 days ago, at one point I ask her "tell me one of your best childhood memories, or one of your most traumatizing ones, whichever kind of childhood you had. :wink: "
Her: Why?
Me: Why not?
Her: I hate interrogations.
Me: No sweat, I just wanted to find out more about you, and I usually find childhood memories is a fun and interesting topic.
Her: Why do you want to find out more?

So what now? I feel like I am losing her... On a side note, I did the roller coaster test on her and at the end I said "You know what, I think I'd like to be a roller coaster, and I'd want you to come take a ride. :wink: "
She replied with "if someday i will see what kind of roller coaster u are and i ll like it, i will take a ride". So I don't know, maybe the feeling that she actually might want/like to have sex with me made me jump the gun a bit?

P.S. She's bisexual, if this info helps in any way. And if you need any more info just ask.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply?
Quote:
I am so confused at this point(don't be afc, show value, dhv, neg, push-pull...etc, AHH fuck it all!:( ) that I've no clue how to answer a simple quetion. Heck I don't even know anymore if this one is a shit test or just a legitimate question. So here's the thing, I'll try to keep it short.

Another online girl, we just started talking 2 days ago, at one point I ask her "tell me one of your best childhood memories, or one of your most traumatizing ones, whichever kind of childhood you had. :wink: "
Her: Why?
Me: Why not?
Her: I hate interrogations.
Me: No sweat, I just wanted to find out more about you, and I usually find childhood memories is a fun and interesting topic.
Her: Why do you want to find out more?

So what now? I feel like I am losing her... On a side note, I did the roller coaster test on her and at the end I said "You know what, I think I'd like to be a roller coaster, and I'd want you to come take a ride. :wink: "
She replied with "if someday i will see what kind of roller coaster u are and i ll like it, i will take a ride". So I don't know, maybe the feeling that she actually might want/like to have sex with me made me jump the gun a bit?

P.S. She's bisexual, if this info helps in any way. And if you need any more info just ask.
you crumbled under the tension, and lost the frame, she is now with the last response requesting you to qualify yourself to her again

next time before you just request investment from a girl (just quizing her on personal info), tell her about your childhood memories first, without her demanding it, ground emotions into your story telling, as you explain your childhood, explain how those experiences made you feel, it is difficult to do this over text because you can not use verbal tonality, and sub-communication to express this, instead just keep writing, it made me feel this, and then this happened and i felt this, once that happened, this happened and i was so *feeling* etc. you get the point, once you have grounded your self, you fish for her to qualify herself to connect, to your story

you must have experienced something like this, childhood was a good blah blah (or what ever your transition is) if she doesn't take the bait, just have some fun with her, get to a lighter more casual topic, or tease her, or what ever your style is, tell her some storys, make her laugh, bring some value to the convo, after the value is there, go for the investment,

if I were you my answer would just be,
Listen, There is no 'why'.You are a mystery, and you intrigue me.

or you could just go with something else,

like, Well, I was going to rob your house, but I can see you are too clever to let that happen ;P
Author:  VIKINGS [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:51 pm ]
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Thank you, I'll go with the rob your house one and see what happens. Then I'll try to slip in a story first. I have a good one about runing into a bear in the woods and how it made me feel. At least I hope it's good, cause it's a fake. :)
I'll report on what happens, stay tunned.
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:46 pm ]
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pump is right and shes testing you.

Stay Alpha and keep control of the frame. Many was to stay in control, and even more ways to lose it by explaining yourself (low value).
Author:  ChuckStrong [ Thu Sep 07, 2017 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply?
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