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| Author: | gameboy10 [ Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is there such thing as "Too Many NEGs"? |
NEGs are a strong part of my game. I've been NEGing males & females since I was a kid. It's a natural part of my sense of humor. My question is,,, How many NEGs do you usually hit a HB with during your initial approach? Are too many NEG's a bad thing?,,, Or the more the merrier? Do you continue with your NEGs even after you FC with a HB? |
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| Author: | striker20 [ Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | yea i think so |
hey iam only to new to the game. i think negs are a great way to make a girl try to get your attention, i would use them only till the point where i start getting IOI's |
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| Author: | xfman [ Sun Oct 29, 2006 9:13 pm ] |
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Mystery talk about 3 in a 10HB , but it depends on the ego of the girl , I have approach some 10HB and with one Neg she become really sad because she is insecure. Yeah ; Too many Negs can make u loose attraction. |
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| Author: | khalam [ Mon Oct 30, 2006 10:12 pm ] |
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As always xfman is right , there is such a thing a too many negs. The exact amount of negs to use, depends on how heavy your negs are and how steady the self image your target is. Obviously HB10 can take more then a HB7. The real challange is that self image isnt a thing u can see ... at first. A friend of mine is this HB9 (thin as hell) would u neg her she would burst out in tears (beeing that way by surgery). She cant take any commonly used negs, but hey u couldnt know that! That is why my advise is to not only study YOUR bodylanguange. Just practice(use a mirror it will be a great laugh), read, think about HER body language. doing so u wont be jumping in to the unknown much longer ... as always let us know how it all works out khalam |
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| Author: | xfman [ Mon Oct 30, 2006 11:34 pm ] |
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NEG's are really good but if you say to many NEG's your going to stop being funny, and you will make the girl feel real bad , the best way to learn about NEG's is going out and practice and learn to calibrate them and learn to understand when to stop 
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| Author: | Irony [ Tue Oct 31, 2006 12:00 am ] |
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It's all about balance- if you neg neg neg neg neg without reaching a creating some attraction, demonstrating some value, and reaching a hook point- they're not going to want you to stay. You'll either be blown out as an asshole or they'll assume this is how you show affection- like a 5 year old boy who hits the girls he likes in his class- either way it's going to be a dlv. |
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| Author: | Jack-The-Stripper [ Tue Nov 07, 2006 6:42 pm ] |
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Negs are usually used to lower a "bitch shield". Now I want you to realize that HB's have bitch shields. They can usually take about three negs. Once the bitch shield is lowered, you don't use them anymore. Negs can also be used to show you won't be trampled on. Here's an example. HB: Buy me a drink Me: (Smile at her) HB: What? Me: Your nose wiggles when you speak! HAHAH Awww, that is soooo cute! HB: (Covers her nose and starts blushing like crazy) You will realize that she now becomes very self-conscious and you shifted the control back into your hands. |
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| Author: | Irony [ Wed Nov 08, 2006 2:11 am ] |
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a girl of quality is going to go toe to toe with you when you neg her- if u can dish it out, be ready to take it and give it right back |
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| Author: | Saros [ Thu Nov 09, 2006 3:24 am ] |
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In my opinion, everyone here is touching on different aspects of negs. Everyone has been accurate in what they've said so far, but depending on a variety of factors, you'll need to adjust to your own situation. Sometimes you may meet girls who aren't even beautiful, but have a strangely high level of self esteem that is borderline arrogant. These girls can be negged as much as you could Neg a HB 10. I ran into a 7 who had an insane bitch shield and that situation called for lots of negs. I think the most important skill for mastering negs is timing them correctly, reading the girl's response correctly and responding to any "comebacks" made by the girl. |
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| Author: | smoothz [ Mon Nov 13, 2006 11:53 pm ] |
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how do you know where to draw the line though, like if an HB you've just run into, how do you knw her level of self esteem, cause some HB 10's are very insecure and some HB 7s are like super stuck up...so will she reveal in her body language and we just hafta look for it? or does this kinda thing come with experience? |
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| Author: | xfman [ Tue Nov 14, 2006 2:49 am ] |
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Yeah it comes from experience, but you can learn how by just watching facial expressions, body alnguage and the way she react after the NEG. also look out for hints in the response she gave; Look for details like , the voice tone of her answer , and of course what she tells you , if she plays with the neg she might have a high self-esteem but allways look for the reaction, and learn to calibrate your NEG's. *NOTE: Remember a Sniper NEG have a different effect than a shotgun NEG , etc... |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:55 pm ] |
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Don't make negs about her weight. It's almost only thing a woman can do to make her prettier. The're always on diets - how would you feel, if someone bad commented you on your hard work? |
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| Author: | Gamed [ Sat Nov 25, 2006 2:33 pm ] |
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Gameboy10... you mention that negs are a normal part of your personality and a natural part of humor... I think that this skill is good to have, however there is a point when your negs become an insult. The part about it "negs being a natural part of your sence of humor", is what i would like to address. I am assuming that you don't only use negs for humor... after you have broken throught the bitch shield, u need to start baiting her... and a good way to do this is by being COCKY & FUNNY. you can still tease her & YOU SHOULD, but in a cocky and funny way where you are not insulting her, but instead intrigued and entertained. I think you should try to replace some of your negs with cocky and funny... this shouldn't be a hard thing to do for you if you are funny and can come up with negs easy. hope this helps. Gamed |
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| Author: | V1V [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 8:38 pm ] |
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i neg too much as well. just humor. i just look at it like a1 a2 is a doddle. after that i use my own catergorized neg - which is a cheeky kind - which is my humor. best used in c2 or c3. the amounts of negs needed depends on the hotness of the girl V1V 
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| Author: | phillei [ Sat Oct 04, 2008 6:31 am ] |
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Rememeber every girl is not a big BITCH you dont always have to use tons of negs !! |
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