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| Author: | paladien [ Fri Nov 09, 2007 8:46 pm ] |
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hey yall ive got an anxiety getting intimate with women,, is this comon? and how to get over it? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Fri Nov 09, 2007 11:18 pm ] |
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Yes, it is common, but be more specific. Anxiety with kissing, with touching, with sex? With what exactly? |
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| Author: | fortunehooks [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 12:45 am ] |
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Yes this is common, sir. Actually, I applaud you for even asking about this subject. What exactly worries you about the intimacy issues? It may just be something that is easily fixable. |
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| Author: | YZ [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 12:56 am ] |
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Have you heard of pre gaming? If you are nervous about getting intimate and you really think that you will that night or with a girl or you just want to try it to calm your nerves... Just wack it before you go out.. Any time you have an orgasm either during sex or in your own time it calms your nerves.. releases chemicals in your brain and you may loose that edge.. also carry a condom and tell your self you are getting laid tonight! |
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| Author: | paladien [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 12:37 pm ] |
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anxiety with fclose, i used to have an anxiety with kissing but now ive done it so many times its not a big deal after al  the thing is when i lie next to a woman in bed,, im very nervous and the woman gets nervous too. this sux,, basically i couldnt even get a hard on  and the more i thought about getting one the less it worked. she tried to comfort me (lol) but all the sexual tension was gone.it sucked. i heard david d had also the same thing. he's embarraced about it just like me actually. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 6:51 pm ] |
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That's perfectly understandable, especially if you're a virgin. Hell, I've known guys that have been with several girls that still get that anxiety. And yes, to the point that they can't perform and can't get up. It is a hard one to deal with. My best suggestion is that YOU have to be comfortable with the girl. Sure, she has to be comfortable with you to be willing to fuck you to begin with, but YOU also need to be comfortable with her. And, I know this will be hard, but YOU have to figure out a way to NOT worry about your performance. Focus on pleasing her. Focus on making it SO good for her that she craves you more. DON'T focus on whether or not you will be able to get in her. Look at it this way, if you can make her get off before you ever even get in her, that's gonna make her think that much more highly of you sexually. Then, stack her orgasms. Anyway, focus more on making her enjoy the experience than on your own performance. |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 8:52 pm ] |
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Depending on your age and virility, it might help to rub one out before hand as well. It will make you think about it less, because your body has already gotten rid of whatever massive urges recently, so you can relax and concentrate on her, which will make you able to get it up, because you won't be thinking about you. The only thing is, if you aren't super virile, then you don't want to make is so that your body won't be able to get hard again. |
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