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Author:  fitnessman [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  HB10 is really really frustrating the hell out of me!!!
I can't stop thinking about this chick brothers. She's in my English class and she sits right next to me, the professor blabs so fucking much and the little time I have before class I talk to her, make her laugh, neg her, etc. She just seems to be showing no romantic interest. No IOI's whatsoever (can someone post a big list of IOI's still so I can check :D ). I was talking to her today and she was talking about how she wants to kill some girl and I asked her why and she said that she's the girl her ex cheated on her with. She went out with her ex for like 4 years and she still talks to him. I told her she must be an idiot for still talking to him and she just said "I know but I knew him for 4 years". I don't think she still has interest in him but she's just confused. I'm not going to class tomorrow cause I have to go job hunting but I will go the day after and I'm running out of ideas guys. We both have pretty busy schedules and I still think it's a little early to suggest spending time with her without it getting really really awkward. What should I do guys?? I want her to see me in a different light ya know. I'm thinking about this girl day and night fellas, help me out :( we still have class together for 1 and a half months, so I want her to be really into me before I run out of time because I know we won't have class together again cause we have different majors.
I'll keep you guys updated everyday and I will be implementing the advice given here.
Author:  Lashram01 [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 11:07 pm ]
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a good and easy convo is to talk about yer respective majors. . .when you talk about yers be specific as to the job you will hold after graduation and how that will fullfill and challenge you.
Author:  fitnessman [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 11:31 pm ]
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a good and easy convo is to talk about yer respective majors. . .when you talk about yers be specific as to the job you will hold after graduation and how that will fullfill and challenge you.
already done bro. I did the convo like in our second talk lol
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 1:49 am ]
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First off, be careful of the oneitis man. Maybe the best thing to do would be to back off for a while, sarge some other girls, etc. Make her wonder what *she* did wrong so that you're not talking to her as much. Then when she starts trying to get attention from, and qualifying herself to, you, then you can give her an IOI, invite her to a party or something, be real social, DHV, and then before you know it you'll be getting those IOI's from her constantly. If you're already on a good rapport w/ her in class, have you started kino escalating? If you're sitting right next to her cracking jokes this shouldn't be too hard.
Author:  nitewalker [ Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:28 pm ]
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Hey man, check out this link for 34 IOI's. Also since the girl is a HB10, keep up with the cocky funny and the negs. But you also need to demonstrate higher social value. You could do this by talking to others girls, applying your game. She needs to see that you are preselected by other women. Cheers.
Author:  nitewalker [ Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:30 pm ]
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Hey man cant send link yet as I am a new member. But type '34 Flirting IOIs' as keywords in youtube.
Author:  YZ [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 1:14 am ]
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Dont let her get to you.. keep your cool or she will be gone.. Theres a million fish in the sea and one worm in your pants.. she isnt only ten out there.. some fishy will bite not literally I would hope LOL
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB10 is really really frustrating the hell out of me!!!
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I can't stop thinking about this chick brothers. She's in my English class and she sits right next to me, the professor blabs so fucking much and the little time I have before class I talk to her, make her laugh, neg her, etc. She just seems to be showing no romantic interest. No IOI's whatsoever (can someone post a big list of IOI's still so I can check :D ). I was talking to her today and she was talking about how she wants to kill some girl and I asked her why and she said that she's the girl her ex cheated on her with. She went out with her ex for like 4 years and she still talks to him. I told her she must be an idiot for still talking to him and she just said "I know but I knew him for 4 years". I don't think she still has interest in him but she's just confused. I'm not going to class tomorrow cause I have to go job hunting but I will go the day after and I'm running out of ideas guys. We both have pretty busy schedules and I still think it's a little early to suggest spending time with her without it getting really really awkward. What should I do guys?? I want her to see me in a different light ya know. I'm thinking about this girl day and night fellas, help me out :( we still have class together for 1 and a half months, so I want her to be really into me before I run out of time because I know we won't have class together again cause we have different majors.
I'll keep you guys updated everyday and I will be implementing the advice given here.

Here is a list of IOIs:
-Does she look down? This is a form of submission, welcoming.
-Which way is her body leaning?
-Are her arms crossed?
-Does she have a slightly higher then normal blink rate(more then one every 3 seconds)?
-Does she have raised eye brows(also a from of submission)?
-Is she preening her Hair?
-Are there hand movement bringing attention to face?
-Holding eye contact for 3 seconds or more, then she looks down.
-Are her eyes dilated(are her pupils big)?
-If you are standing which way are her feet pointing(towards you is good)? -Watch the corners of her lips, do they go down(bad), or up?
-Does she bite her lip? Do not confuse with tight lips which is bad.
-Does she posture(push breasts up), sitting with crossed legs(good when leaning toward you, "showing" them to you, or pointing toward you)?
-If she is crossing her legs in a way away from you with arms folded across her chest that is a huge negative sign.
-Does she Tilt her head? Exposure to her neck.
-Looking up at you in a childhood manner.
-Does she copy your posture, movements?
-Shoulder shrug.
-Droopy jaw, is subconscious and difficult to control.
-When your standing next to her which way are her feet pointing?(Toward you is good)
-Relaxed movements(she is comfortable around you).
-Look at a spot convenient for both of you, if they look and stare at the spot, there is interest( spot on the roof or wall).
-Isopraxism, she is copying your body movement hands on lap. Put your chin on your hands at a table if she does the same, then you take your hands off your chin, see if they copy your movements. It is also a good thing to do to a girl that you are interested in, it builds rapport by making you seem similar.
-Glancing in your area, does she constantly look toward you or past you? Girls have better peripheral vision then men(we have tunnel vision), they can check us out easier then we can check them out. Studies show woman actually check men out more often then men check out women. They are also a lot more thorough.

There are a ton of these, but since some of them are subconscious they are very subtle and easy to miss. There obviously will have to be a combination of these, you don't need all of them. However you will need at least 3 of these, they also have to fit the situation though. For instance, obviously at a concert a girl touching you isn't necessarily a IOI but if you are alone together it is.

I am not a master of these by any means, I sometimes miss them and think over the situation later and realize that I was given openings. It happened last night. I had a few situations talking to girls where I missed some signals, I had openings. I didn't want a few, so I let them go no matter how many times they came to me. I had a target girl by this point, although that girl was increasing my value. She denied 2 other guys.

As far as getting that girl I am of no use, my goofy laugh and personality help me naturally conversate with girls. I have one girl that is similar though where she is the kind that have beautiful eyes that haunt you for a few days. If she is not the most attractive women I have talked to she is very close. Just an amazing girl, I don't know what to do about her, so I feel you, however she does send me IOIs.
Author:  FreeLife [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 8:49 pm ]
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fitnessman wrote
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I'm thinking about this girl day and night fellas
Dude you really gotta stop think so much about one girl. I am sorry to say this but it sounds like one-itis. Go sarge some other girls and see if you keep feeling the same way about her.

Best of luck
Author:  shurgs [ Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:21 am ]
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MANNNNNNNNN

IS this still the same english girl from the beginning of the semester!!!!!?


I would say, "so i was thinking about your situation with the ex bf... if i would have known that all it takes to get you so fired up and into a guy is for him to treat you like shit and cheat on you... i would have done that way back in september...

then say, HB you need to realize he did you a favor because now you cant feel guilty about us studying together for the english final...


lets start after class over coffee (of course you really arent studying)

and if she objects say fine, ill just get sarah to be my study partner... she appreciates guys that dont cheat on her... and remember the next time the EX cheats on I gave u the out... but you chose Bobby Brown over Starbucks..
Author:  Voltaire [ Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:29 am ]
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are you dlv'ing?

lol someone prbbly said this but im not big on reading when answering a q.

this is usually hard in school though, she can just see where you hang out and stuff.
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