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| Author: | tk750 [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Should I give up? |
One-itis. A word that brings dread and humiliating memories to any PUA. So basically there's this girl that I know and have been talking to for quite a while. I basically just keep the convo fluff. But after reading the game, I demonstrated the Cat String Theory and it worked like a charm. In other words, a lot of IOIs. But now I feel that I'm sick with one-itis and my interest in her definitely shows in my body language and speech, which consequently makes her stand offish. Furthermore, I'm coming off as needy and am not demonstrating DHV. When I do act as the alpha, she wants to be around me. When I have those off days where I feel like an AFC, well, you guys should know. For a couple of weeks, I told myself in the head that I would ask her out to movie and dinner like on saturday (I planned on asking her out friday). But everytime when I got the nerve to say to myself that I would do it, she never seems to show enough interest to add up to the "Are you free tomorrow" line. I must remind people that this has been going on for 2 months already and I think that I may be coming off as the LJBF. Damn. So should I just give up or work on my PUA skills to nail this girl? Should I go out and nail other girls and then come back to this one when I become more experienced? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:45 am ] |
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ok, tk, first of all, the way you sound with this girl, I'm not sure how much "nailing" you'll be doing with other girls, but aside from that, yes, that's exactly what you need to do. Move on to other girls. As a PUA we would tell you to fuck 8-10 other girls and see if this one still matters to you after that, but at your point, I wouldn't worry about scoring with the other girls, so much as simply practicing your game on the other girls and improving yourself. Also, keep in mind that "dinner and a movie" is a bad idea. AND, you ASKING her to go out with you is a bad idea. And, you've been mulling over the question in your mind for 2 months . . . and I'm sure you haven't kinoed this girl . . . so I'd say you're probably deep into the LJBF zone by now. Move on. Practice and practice and practice some more on as many girls as you possibly can. Just not on her. Maybe one day you'll have a chance with her . . . maybe. |
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| Author: | tk750 [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:24 am ] |
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Hah. Thanks a lot. What I admire most about people are those that could give me the truth straight. I will do just what you told me. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:40 am ] |
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Quote: Hah. Thanks a lot. What I admire most about people are those that could give me the truth straight.
That's my goal.
I will do just what you told me. |
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| Author: | Numen [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 10:46 am ] |
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you're not in the LJBF zone yet buddy. It's really all about consistency and it looks like the more you work on her, the more consistent you are... you just have your AFC moments still. What you need to do is get out of the one-itis mentality. REMEMBER This isn't the only girl for you, Stop caring about closing to begin with and take two steps back.. reestablish attraction. Be ballsy and alpha Keep things spontaneous and her interested To ask her out, never do dinner and a movie.. it's just way too cliche. USE POWER WORDS! Asking a yes or no question makes it easier for anybody to say no.. I'm taking you out friday instead of Do you want to go out friday Power words are all about alpha and projects confidence.. now of course you're not going to just say that out of the blue because that will most likely offset her.. you gotta lead up to it. good luck man and turn this one-itis mentality inside out |
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| Author: | paladien [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 11:31 am ] |
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lol.. id say pull urself together man. dont ask her out for dinner or movies. it sux. take her to a themepark or something. or maybe you wanna take her to the mall. do simple, ordinary things with a magic touch. thats the key  goodluck ohw u must get this attitude of i like you but if you leave i dont give a fuck, 10 others for you bye 
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