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Author:  LiorD [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  Can't lead the conversation
well, whenever im sargeing im starting off with an opener like:
do you know where is X?
HB: BLAH BLAH
me: well to tell you the truth i dont care, i just wanted to meet you.

than i usually introduce myself and she tells me her name,

the problem is, i dont frickin know what to say after that... theres just like a bit of a silence... i can always pretend that i need to go and just take her phone number, but i dont know how to develop the conversation with a girl i just met after i introduced myself...


any advices?
:?
Author:  Vitamin-J [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 12:33 am ]
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Xuma has some really good conversational stuff you should check it out
Author:  LiorD [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 11:38 am ]
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where can i find it?
Author:  Nova Casanova [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 11:39 am ]
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If you choose to use as direct language as 'to tell you the truth i dont care, i just wanted to meet you', you should also progress in that way, for example by immediately asking for her number. I'd come off as strange or at least unusual if u started talking about the environment an that 2 girls fighting outside blabla etc.
I'm not saying being direct is the best you can do, but if u choose to use it, stick to it.

However, my opinion is that it is better to be less direct (for sure when opening and in the first minutes) and first comfort her etc. And it's also much easier to keep the conversation running that way because there is a huge variety of subjects you could talk about.
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 12:07 pm ]
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Say what you feel. What you think. I rarely do direct. Approaching women in open spaces with a lot of people like malls or a park is best for direct. In smaller venues, indirect works better.

The purpose of daygame is for you and for her to cut all the shit out and confront the looming question as to whether she is interested in you. Then go the usually convo: open ended questions, mild cold reads, playful kino, stories, statemente etc too many list. Just keep being honest after tye opener.
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