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Author:  shaganator [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:38 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP ME PLEASE IM VERY SICK WITH ONEITIS..
Hi i had awseome game this year dated 23 woman in 6 weeks, but only layed 4 of the 23,

ive got oneitis on a girl been with her 3weeks now and i tryed to get back into the confident me and being a player again as its summer, but dont have the confidance to do it as i tryed breaking up with her but she ticks all the boxes for me... well most any ways.. can't tick an abundance of woman :-)

also i did sleep with a new girl last wekend when i went out sarging got a f close in 10 mins flat, she was 39 and im only 23 was a fucking good fuck but she didnt give me the confidance to leave the girl i got oneitis with..

Give me lots of ideas to how i can over come this sickness... thanks players
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 8:16 pm ]
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Give me lots of ideas to how i can over come this sickness... thanks players
you are sabotaging yourself in so many ways ...

list all ways where you are sabotaging yourself ...write them down here

example : i date too many woman , i hook up with manipulative bitches , i need woman to approve me and my life.
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Give me lots of ideas to how i can over come this sickness... thanks players
well said in a crude way : stop thinking with your dick....don't worry i've been in your situation. stop making yourself vulnerable to woman
if im really honest i see all the symptoms of a guy who didn't solved his emotional issues.
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also i did sleep with a new girl last wekend when i went out sarging got a f close in 10 mins flat, she was 39 and im only 23 was a fucking good fuck but she didnt give me the confidance to leave the girl i got oneitis with..
this is terrible .. code red .. defcon 3.... you basicly are telling me you have fucked a easy to get milf in order to cover up all your issues ? do you even know what one-itis is ?

answer these questions :

what do you like about woman?
what do you think relationships are about?
why do you need a womans approval ?
why do you have one-itis ?

did you used a condom when you fucked that 39 y old ?
Author:  VTdanny [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 11:36 pm ]
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OK heres the rap...SLOW DOWN.

I don't think you have take the time to sit down and think about the situation at hand. This happens to so many guys who get into PU and become a product of the lifestyle.

You need to think about why you got into PU in the first place. If it was to lay lots of women and nothing else and that makes you happy with your life then do it. However, that is usually never the case. As human beings, and males, we seek both companionship and the feel the drive to spread our DNA as much as possible. Its what keeps this world breathing in a sense.

SO...what do you want from the skills that you have learned?

If this girl fulfills everything you want in a woman, stay with her. Its simple as that. Your definition of oneitis seems very skewed to me. Oneitis really applies to guys who like a girl and won't leave her alone, and usually she either immediately friends zones him or won't give him the time of day.

You don't have a problem with oneitis, but rather a problem with laying out your own ambitions.

My advice. Stay with the girl. Keep things fresh. Don't let her rule the relationship, and don't fall back into being an AFC. You do that an she may take you places no one night stand ever will.
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