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Author:  Ziffer [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:39 am ]
Post subject:  Can't go into Comfort

My sticking point is that I can build attraction, but I get stuck there and don't know how to create comfort that will help me close. I kino a lot and dhv, but I still get the Boy Friend objection and the not interested objection. I find that the girl is enjoying my company, but they don't want to give me there number this happens to all my sets that I have been with for 10 + minutes. Need advice for building comfort.

Author:  Troyden [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 3:57 pm ]
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I totally understand where your coming from dude,

This used to be a huge problem for me so, what you should do are compliance tests, they build a huge amount of comfort, for example look up the trust test, then straight after you do that, throw her hands away and say,

" No, you failed the test "

Watch her reaction and be unreactive to it, just look it her with a really cocky smile, within 3 - 5 seconds of telling her she failed, do the spin kiss, such an easy but powerful kiss close :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hl_MNBEspA0

You don't want to mess this up, so just tell your girl friends,

" What would you do, if a guy you like did this to you ? " But don't kiss them unless your really close with them, and if you do just give them a basic kiss :D

But when you do this on your target, say to them

" I'm going to show you, an awesome dance move "

This helped me get a kiss close in 10 mins :lol:

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden :D

Author:  Ziffer [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 9:04 pm ]
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Yea I that was helpful, but I was looking more for ways to increase comfort through conversation skills not really kinoing. Also, most of this is during day time.

Author:  Troyden [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 10:23 pm ]
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Dude, I'm only 15, all I have is day game, I kissed closed two girls by doing this, in day time, still lots of sunlight and people around to see, and it works like a CHARM :lol:

In my point of view, kino is much more alpha, and conversational comfort building is much less alpha, and can put you in the friend zone because, they will start to feel that by you not doing anything, you just want to talk, then you will be LJBF'ed and they will tell you all their problems, trust me, I've been there :D

Kino escalation is better to build comfort faster, and you feel like THE MAN, when your doing it, but if you want to do it through conversation, then you NEED to isolate her :D

Those objections are just, LMR and shit tests, find a way to get around them, for example if she says she has a boyfriend, as soon as that word comes from her mouth, cut her off and say,

" Hey, we're not talking about your boyfriend, are we ? (smile) "

It should sound like a rhetorical question, but she will most likely answer, and if she says anything after that, as soon as she starts talking, just go in faster than normal and kiss close her (not if her boyfriend is there), if she still objects, leave it :D

Before she gets a chance to say she's not interested, use Mystery's Kiss Gambit, it's full proof, you will most likely kiss close her later that day, and if she says she's not interested before you use the Gambit, just Freeze her out :D

If you want to number close, when you are talking, just randomly say to her,

" You know what (don't let her answer, but pause), you're actually (lots of emphasis on actually, also pause after this) kind of cool, me and my friends are going to (name of place) on (the day you are going), you should totally come "

If she says yes, you say,

" You SHOULD (the word should is important, as it's not asking and not telling), give me you number so I can send details "

If she says no, or that it's not a good day for her, you say

" We'll I'll be pretty busy on (couple of days after you go to such place), but I MIGHT go with them on (some such day you are going), you should give me your number so I can send details " This is frame control :D

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden :D

Author:  Rundeep [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 10:51 am ]
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Look for the IOIs, recognize 5, then move to comfort.

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