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| Author: | bandito69 [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 11:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Demanding respect... showing my boundaries |
Im having trouble setting my boundaries of how far i let women go with me. Lately I'v been getting some disrespect that is hurting my value. im pretty sure its the way im handling it like a choad. that girls are testing and loosing attraction Quote from mystery... Quote: It's important to remember that often she is not deliberately testing
i understand this concept from mystery. heres what happend lately.you. It's not necessarily something that she is consciously aware of. She just gets a feeling to behave a certain way, and so she does. Depending on how you react, she feels either more or less attracted as a result. This is known as a congruence test. If she views you as a contender, then she will test you. A woman often won't even bother to test a low-value male; instead, she will just become nonresponsive and then leave as soon as possible. Thus a test can be considered an indicator of interest of sorts. Congruence tests are a double-edged sword: If you respond the right way, she will be noticeably more attracted to you after the test. But if you fail, then she will be noticeably less attracted. Sitting in a hot tub. the HB9 im teasing pushs me once, then goes back for a 2nd firm push and sends me loosen my balance into a guy sitting next to me. i failed this test by not showing some kinda of something. driven an HB8 home. shes messing around my my phone after i tell her not to. picking stupid songs on my radio after telling her not to. she finaly gives it back and starts nudging the phone into my face whilst im driving, ( i really held my temper on this one) can somebody break down putting down boundaries so i know the best way to deal with this crap? thanks all. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 7:01 pm ] |
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I don't give women a f*cking inch. If they show any sign of disrespect or test me in any way I respond accordingly. I don't let ANYTHING slide. The sooner they realize you are not going to deal with immature nonsense, the better off you will be. After the first push in the hot tub, I would have looked at her and said 'what the f*ck is your problem'. In the car, I would have said 'what part of don't mess with my phone did you not understand'? Now, keep in mind... you have to carry yourself a certain way in order for these words to carry any weight. If you behave like a beta male or a low status male, she will laugh at you and continue doing whatever she wants. If however, you carry yourself as an Alpha, she will think twice before doing it again. |
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| Author: | bandito69 [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 8:25 pm ] |
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more on the alpha side, i maybe just acting to chill about it, thanks man your advice was real helpful |
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