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Author:  Jaguar914 [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  This girl I like from school

There is this girl I really like from school. She is an HB10. All of the guys always want to get with her. I see her in school a lot, but the only way I have talked to her is by texting and i got her number from my friend. I don't talk to her at school because I am afraid to mess up. How can I start talking to her so she will start liking me and want to be with me?

Author:  Tiger6Niner [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:30 am ]
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Stop being afraid of messing things up because even if you manage to talk to her, you'll hold back in fear of messing it up. Its not the end of the world if you cant get with her, theres a million other girls out there just waiting to be picked up. If you go up to her and be yourself and she doesnt like you, then you've done your best. Some people are just incompatible. If you want a relationship, its far better to be yourself and fail than start a relationship based on lies.

Author:  Jykae [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 12:14 pm ]
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Sounds to me you're still new to this game and very shy. The ugly truth is that there's no magical pick-up line or one conversation you're going to have and suddenly she falls into your arms. So stop thinking that right now. You can't even start dating her and just go back to your computer every day, if that happens you're gonna lose her. So start building on your confidence.

The first thing you can do is go and say SOMETHING to her. I think the only opener that's gonna be congruent for you is: "hey, i've been wanting to meet you so i thought i'd come over and say hi. I'm (insert own name)" - That shows major balls and confidence even if you're really very shy. I think it's very attractive as well to the girl, unless you totally creep her out. And this CAN happen. She can also go "aww that's so sweet!" and give you a hug. so stop worrying yourself with an outcome, the truth is that you will NEVER know unless you actually go and do it. And then you'll only know afterwards.

I'd go and say that to her. Then no matter hat happens, congratulate yourself for the fact that you've done what 99% of the other kids have not, which is to actually go and state your interest to her.

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