so ive been flirting with this girl over text for a while and i thought everything was going great she was flirting back and always texting me the next day wanting to talk more. then i started running out of things to talk about and i decided to use some mystery method routines on her to keep things interesting. it had pretty much the opposite effect she started getting bored and now she seems really disinterested. i took a look back and figured the routines made it look like i was trying really hard to impress her since it looked like it wasnt original. anyway its hard now to open her up and talk again. i know i need to get back to flirting so that i can close this girl but i have no idea how to start flirting with her again without seeming like i am really trying for her attention. any ideas?