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Author:  Roberto Rey [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 12:23 am ]
Post subject:  What's the right answer for "do you have a girlfriend?"
Hi there,

I've been in this 3 situations, and when the question is thrown like part of a shit test, I never know what to answer.

Situation 1: you have a girlfriend and you answer "yes". You blew yourself because you have a girlfriend and it became sort of clear you are trying to pick up.

Situation 2: you broke up recently, and you answer "I just broke up". This usually leads the shit tester to ask more why you broke up and most times your value doesnt go through very well after this.

Situation 3: you've been without a girlfriend for a while, you answer that and she frames you as someone not very worthy because it's hard for you to get girls interested in you

So, what would you answer or what would you do if she aims to put you in this corner?
Author:  Keksman [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 12:35 am ]
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I usually say, truthfully, "nothing exclusive, just seeing a few girls at the moment." If you keep your frame, it will make her want you more.

Situation 1: Playfully ask her if she's just trying to get into your pants. Or ask if she'll stop talking to you because you have affections for your girl. Presumably, you don't wanna close anyway.

Situation 2: See above. Or you could launch into this heart wrenching story about how Lizzy just left you, and you are devastated. Eventually, you let the "truth" shine through: Lizzy was your pet turtle :(

Situation 3: See above.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 12:13 pm ]
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Yes I have 13 girlfriends, 17.5 fuckbuddies and 29 ex wives. It's tiring work I'll tell you! Luckily for you I have spaces opening up on Thursday evenings, what do you say? ;-)
Author:  Surielx [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 5:49 pm ]
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Salut!

"My girlfriend is with her husband tonight"

Credit to Tucker Max and great thanks to blondguy for the book info.

Salut!

Surielx.
Author:  Roberto Rey [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 2:26 pm ]
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Thanks, very useful :)
Author:  andd95 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 3:19 pm ]
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misdirection i believe works best.

situation 1: "whooa slow down we aren't at the alter yet" of course followed by light laughter a smile and a hand on her arm. Girls will usually go on the defensive and forget about their original question.

if she persists you simply say "yes, i'm here with friends and meet new people that is all wow did you think i wanted to hook up with you?". everything is said in a playful light. This usually causes one or two reactions 1) she will say okay not really think much of it either continue conversation knowing you have a gf 2) she is now FULLY aware you have a gf and this may actually spur her to get with you.

I have seen many cases of the second happening, in which case the ball is in your court for that moral dilemma.

situation 2: "yes i just got over a tough break up, sometimes you try and make it work but it's not in the cards so we decided to split up". if she persists you can tell her you don't want to get into it, or redirect on "wow your a curious one tell me about yourself".

as you can tell i rarely if ever use the "break up" excuse

situation 3: never make it seem like you are unwanted. EVER. don't lie maybe you have a friends that are females somewhere along the line that you are hoping to hook up with. Just say "i'm exploring my options" with a sly smile.

body language does take a big part in this gambit though, you have to be confident so she doesn't call you out on it. What i have noticed through the years is that women tend to gravitate to guys that are taken. Why? do you ask? because the taken guys know whether or not they get said girls number/hook up/etc. they have someone at home.

if you get into that same mind set, that you always have a plan b you will appear more confident and your game improves. there have been times where i didn't hook up or take a girl home. That wasn't a problem because i could call up a girl at 2-3am to meet me at my house when i got there.

having that extra confidence boost met when i was using my game i was more relaxed and confident. at no point should you sit on your laurels though.
Author:  mrmiracle [ Mon Feb 07, 2011 2:15 am ]
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I'm not that great at this whole PUA thing, but I usually just say, "not at the moment, no."

That answer has some mystery behind it, "not at the moment" implies if you wanted to have one, you could, but you are single right now by choice.
And it doesn't say why, it doesn't say much of anything. If she keeps asking why not, or something, just keep DHV'ing? "I'm very picky when it comes to women. My last girl was great, it didn't work out because she moved away, and I don't do long distance. I like a very specific type of girl, and i'm looking for a very unique kind of personality"

something like that should be good I would think.
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