sometimes it depends on the girl, to be honest. i know of two specific examples from my school, who differ completely.
the first is my ex-girlfriend. if she likes you, she will show it. she's open to approaches and for the most part won't pretend like she doesn't know you.
i'm playing around with the second example- she is incredibly fine-looking but lacks self confidence. she avoids being without friends and has a hard time talking to me. so she just tries to pretend like she doesn't like me (but she does-- she overcompensates with me. over ignores, if you will.)
anyways, there are two extremes for you. i don't know if you can tell exactly with this girl, but they don't all behave exactly the same. if you aren't sure what to do in one case, practice practice practice. every girl is a little different but they are similar enough that you should be able to see some patterns. just remember to not rely on plans, but on your ability to improvise. i used to think of stuff i would say to a girl way in advance, and it always fell through because things never worked out the way i thought they would. so you NEED to be confident enough to approach any situation without preparation.
i'm still working on that.
don't get stuck in the place where you think you have to follow a particular path to get a girl. that's where i used to always fail--i thought i needed to know what to say exactly. all you need is to know the patterns and be able to adapt.
that's all i can say. i hope there are other people who can be more specific. i don't really understand your culture exactly, like how far you can go within your religion. good luck with the girl.
