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Author:  easye [ Sun Sep 30, 2007 6:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Dance Dance Kills
So the last couple of times at the club ive been having some pretty good success but have run into a major snag that happens too frequently. Ill open a set, do a couple tricks/games to transition and build attraction and get some free drinks or whatever, then ill get into starting to build comfort and wanting to k and # close and the girls will be totally intrested but will want to go to the dance floor. So we go to the dance floor and this usually starts to kill me cause they want to just keep dancing and ive found that i dont have shit do to finish, move on whatever, and will eject after a while cause i have no idea wtf to do. The dancefloor is killing my game.
Author:  masterPUA [ Mon Oct 01, 2007 1:03 am ]
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when they say lets dance, say you want to go somewhere else... another club, take a walk, get coffee, back to the house... whatever works.
Author:  Esquire [ Mon Oct 01, 2007 2:18 am ]
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learn the art of dancing and the skills necessary to do everything that takes a whole night anywhere else, take 20 min on the dance floor 8)
Author:  tdizzle [ Tue Oct 02, 2007 7:12 am ]
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mystery mentions the dancefloor as a big TRAP... stay away from it if .. if possible
Author:  sandman808 [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 2:16 pm ]
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mystery mentions the dancefloor as a big TRAP... stay away from it if .. if possible
I think you're taking it in the wrong context .. he says if they cant hear, you cant run game .. but he's already opened and is past A2
Author:  Esquire [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 4:59 pm ]
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mystery mentions the dancefloor as a big TRAP... stay away from it if .. if possible
i believe that your sticking to mystery's every word. His method is just that, a method.

Ive had tremendous success on the dance floor because the conversation is very intimate, albeit sporadic, because of the very close proximity to one another.

Kino is also at full force on the dance floor if you know how to get a girl to loosen up and accept your kino positively. The key is to build or stack your kino.

After you leave the floor with a girl to get a drink or sit and chat, venue change, you can easily continue the escalating attraction and seduction with any style of game.

But first and foremost, you've got to know how to dance.
Author:  Ubium [ Sun Oct 07, 2007 12:38 am ]
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Mystery and Style both say to stay away from the dancefloor, unless if you are really good dancer and show DHV. I personally cant dance so I would make an excuse not to dance but it better be a good one.
Author:  kickmagnet [ Sun Oct 07, 2007 2:11 am ]
Post subject:  Well...
I'm no expert, but unless you like to dance, then you're giving them control of the situation by dancing for so long. Then again, if the dancing is kino-heavy, then why eject? Esp. if you take control: for example, turning her around so that she's grinding you.

The only time I closed a girl dancing was at a foam party. But the nature of the dance floor being filled with foam and making us slippery was great for heavy kino and even making out in the middle of the dance floor. Every other time I try to dance when I'm sarging, it's been a complete joke and I totally lose my sets.

Then again, I'm just an rAFC and my game is pretty weak.
Author:  zephyr [ Sun Oct 07, 2007 2:13 am ]
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Zephyr's Dance Floor Rules

Check for IOI's

If she's not attracted to you yet avoid it!:- ONLY go to dancfloor to DHV with dance moves/ fun personality (NOT possible with techno)

If she's already attracted to you focus on closing:- ONLY go to dancefloor to raise buying temperature with serious kino.


The key is to: REMAIN ALPHA!

Lead HER to the dancefloor; never go to the dancefloor because she says so. (She probbly doesn't want to dance much anyway and you just need to escalate your game)

If she really wants to dance and suggesed it:- frame it so she's going to want to impress YOU with her moves.

And always stay centre of attention. :)

Change location (to bar if theres no queue, or lounge area) before the dancing gets boring and lead her BY THE HAND 8)
Author:  TriP [ Wed Oct 10, 2007 5:02 am ]
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this reminds me of a quote

"If god is a dj
then life is a dance floor
love is the rhythm
and you are the music"

Kino is in full force on the dance floor, even the dance floor of life not just of a club

if you know how to dance, you dont even have to talk to a girl to get her

none of us realize how fucking powerful body language is...
Author:  Mr Fahrenheit [ Wed Oct 10, 2007 6:55 am ]
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If you've pumped yourself up and created attraction when she asks to go to the dancefloor say, 'no, if you go there im leaving' if she wants you she will follow, otherwise stuff her there are thousands of them out there.

Dance floor? no terrible idea. nuf said.
Author:  xhopefullookx [ Wed Oct 10, 2007 8:34 am ]
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As everyone has already said, if you can dance, dance. It DHV and generates Kino.

If you cant dance and find yourself in this snag, then I suggest 2 options

One has already been mentioned, tell her you like the conversation and instead of dancing she should go with you to...some other location

OR

You being pulled into this bind means they are getting bored, or they want a change of venue. Dont give them control. I am a firm believer in FTCs, or false time constraints. When you open the set or sit down or single out your target, say "I only have a few minutes" then they'll know your time is precious and your ass wont be dragged out to the dance floor because you have somewhere else to be. Also when they say "Lets go dance" that can be your roll off queue. "I wish I had time, my friends are waiting, is there anyway we can continue this conversation?" or whatever number close line you use.
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