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| Author: | MaGiXX [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Run away! |
Hey all I'm new to the forum and PUA. I would describe myself as a SAAFC (slightly above average frustrated chump) with some good intuition and skills with women, but my game needs serious polishing. I usually don't have too much trouble opening women, but when I do it's usually out of fear of reaching my main sticking point.. at a certain point of talking (mid-game?) I get nervous and just say "well it was nice meeting you" and walk away. I guess I either run out of things to say, prefer to be the leaver than the leavee, or maybe both. This has happened two times in the past two days: I met this cute girl in the park - had a good opener (she had her map open near the Empire State Building and I pointed and told her it was right there *g*).. we started chatting and walking together (I made a joke about following her and told her I had to go that way too anyway).. but at one point she was walking so fast that I felt stupid following her. She was talking, although not making too much of an effort (she seemed shy), but not really trying to get rid of me. Me: "Well, I have to go that way, but it was nice meeting you!" Handshake. Exit, stage left. Again today: HB7 on the subway, sitting behind me reading. I could see her start playing with her hair, potential IOI, so I figure what the hey, so I asked her for directions (actually needed them anyway). She was helpful, I asked her what she was reading, and we started fluffing. We even got off at the same stop, but when we got off she said I had to go the other way, so I just said goodbye and left. I could see she even looked back at me, like she didn't want me to go, but I bolted! Seeing her standing I realized, as I walked away, that she actually more like a 9, but by then it was too late. Wtf is wrong with me? I want to learn from these experiences and not beat myself up about yet another lost opportunity. Has anyone have similar experience or advice? Should I learn some canned material (jokes, games, quizzes, etc) as a backup plan in case I run out of things to say? Or maybe my inner game is fubar-ed? -mx |
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| Author: | derwolf [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 2:45 am ] |
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number close for both 1st. Hey i gota go that way but if you want i can show you some cool sites (assuming she was sight seeing) just let me get your number and ill call you when im free. 2nd. hye i gota go this way and take care of some stuff but when im done i can call you and do (somethign to do with fluff or w/e she interested in). her " but you dont have my number" you well then give it to me and we can fix the issue" get number |
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| Author: | Gatordude [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 3:04 am ] |
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Quote: number close for both
Yeah, nut up, whats the worst that could happen? she says no, at least you tried and you're not standing there wondering "what if?"
1st. Hey i gota go that way but if you want i can show you some cool sites (assuming she was sight seeing) just let me get your number and ill call you when im free. 2nd. hye i gota go this way and take care of some stuff but when im done i can call you and do (somethign to do with fluff or w/e she interested in). her " but you dont have my number" you well then give it to me and we can fix the issue" get number |
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| Author: | derwolf [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 3:19 am ] |
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yeah your game is good just got close it, and both were very simple.. do it next time... you got this down |
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| Author: | MaGiXX [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 1:33 am ] |
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Thanks brothers, damn good advice. I think the second one (the hotter one) I could've turned into an instant date. I'm chalking this one up to experience. Next time I'll go for it and field report! |
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