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| Author: | lax16 [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 4:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Embarrassing sex problem- please help! |
This is pretty embarrassing but it's something I need to confront and get some help for. I lost my virginity a little later than most of my friends (17) and although I have experience, I can still count the number of blowjobs and times I've had sex on my hands (I'm 20 now). I've had success with girls but anytime I was with them never pushed to get BJs or sex so I think that's why my experience is so limited. When I first got BJs I'd only last 2-5 minutes. When I was with a girl I was able to last between 5-10mins a few times, haven't gotten a full BJ (gotten sucked off for a little bit) in a while though, so I couldn't give you any recent numbers. Sex wise, the first few times I had sex I only lasted between less than 1 minute and up to 5 minutes. One of my ONS last year I was able to go for between 5-10 mins. My other ONS last year and my most recent from this weekend it was less than a minute. Now those 2 were definitely tight but still... When this happens during sex (not BJs), it almost feels like I don't have an orgasm, I just ejaculate, if that makes any sense. This most recent one, I was not thinking about cumming early or anything. I was feeling confident and ready to fuck her. This is extremely embarrassing for me and definitely makes me feel apprehensive about trying to fuck girls. I took some online quiz and it said I have level 1 PE which is easily fixed. Guys help me out here, what do I do? I'm turning 21, I should be able to fuck girls whenever I want and give them a good ride. If some of you have had issues like this, I hope you'll tell me about your experience and how you got over this! Any experts please chime in! Thanks |
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| Author: | freezeiztactical [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:53 pm ] |
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Well, if it's been some time between girls, it's normal for it to happen sooner. Do you masturbate often? You should. When in doubt, talk to your physician during a routine checkup, they'll tell you if there is something that is medically wrong with you. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 8:37 pm ] |
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Great advise Freezeiztactical. Jerking off is 1 of the best remedies. Some guys even masturbate just before meeting up with a chicc. The more recent(or often)you ejaculate,the longer you'd last next time. Plus it's anticipation. If you're gonna lay a girl for the 1st.time,anxiety will flow-especially if it's a girl you think is out of your league!! It happens to all of us. I dont come quicc when sexing my GF. But if it's an ONS,or girl I fount very attractive...Shit,Im lasting 2 minutes if I dont pace myself(lol). I dont view it as embarrassement. So change your inner game. I tell girls that if a guy cums fast,it means that the vajayjay is good. So the girls dont feel awkward nor diss me. They feel secure that I came fast(lol). It's mental also. While doing a girl doggy-style,Im more prone to cum sooner if I watch her ass,hold her ass or brag to myself["Damn,she has a fine ass...]". But if Im thinking about eating a pizza,my hands at my side(or not or her ass),I'll last way longer. Plus it all comes down to pacing. If you're fucking a girl non-stop like a mad rabbit in the same position,you wont last! But if you vary the pace-slow,fast for 10 sec.,then slowly,switch positions like 4 times,you'll last 3 times longer. Or just plain and simply stop!!! While fucing her,stop(pull out)and go foreplay,suck her tits for 2 minutes,then go again for 5 min.(pacing),then pull out again and kiss her up... Simple. I manipulate this all the time. Without all those breaks I do,I'd last 2 minutes tops. But I last like 50 minutes becaue of pauses,switches(positions),added forplay,me eating her for 10 min.,etc. |
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