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| Author: | Shyler [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Do I have to be a very loud and energetic guy to game? |
I'm a calm person. Inside I'm a nice guy, and I used to be introvert, but I became more and more bad, sexual and cocky versus girls in terms of teasing and sexuality since I learned this stuff a year ago. This weekend I was on a camp with some 20 people of my college I haven't met before. From the beginning I started quite alfa and I made a very good first impression on everyone and I made many laugh. I teased, I was sexual and cocky funny and I kino'd a lot. I felt that girls were getting attracted to me. Since there was only one girl who was pretty cute, I gamed her more than other girls. I was doing very well and I got her attention and there was even attraction, but then there was this other guy, a chill and cool person, he was as well starting to hit on her. That guy was very funny, energetic and confident and soon he got her attention. Since my main goal in that camp was to make friends (in general with people), I didn't want to amog him or anything so I gave her a bit less attention. I have quite good game. I can be very social and smooth and I'm often in a sexual mood. Being very social, loud and energetic helps me making an amog, but I can't be like that uninterupted for 3 days. So if a guy comes whos nature is very energetic, social, extravert and loud, there is a danger that he might destroy my game. How can I adjust my calm personality to my game and being a good player? |
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| Author: | enrique [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 3:46 am ] |
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You really don't need to be energetic. Your game and persona should be tailored around who you naturally are. Being too energetic can sometimes work against you. You might come off as too much of a player or just an entertainer. One reason is high energy can be counter productive is that too many Amog's do the group leader/entertainer role. And AMOGs are only AFCs with a little bit of muscle or money and confidence, they have no game. Most if not all attractive women play AMOGs like a flute they get lavish presents, muscle to protect them, and sex when she wants it. If you act amog you will be used like one. For calm game just work on non verbal and seductive game. With a calm seductive approach you can manage to bring a girl into your own personal world. I don't know if there's an exact formula to do this, but look up Stealth Seduction or even better 60 Years of Challenge. A good example is the following. I was at church and during the service I tried to make eye contact with the most attractive girl there from across the room. Eventually she made contact with me, I held eye contact with her and she glanced away I still held and she looked back then I smiled she smiled back and she blushed. And boom instant connection. I use this same formula often. Simple non verbal ques will show so much more confidence and high value than any story or trick. Also you will stand out because everyone does the pseudo alpha male thing. Think Daniel Craig in Casino Royale. |
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| Author: | ChiefBx [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 2:28 pm ] |
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check out Richard LaRuina's free videos. He talks about techniques he uses to get a group to match his laid-back energy rather than having to amp himself up to their high energy level. |
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