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| Author: | bigdreams [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 2:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm charismatic but she's not investing |
Hello my PUA brethren. Backdrop: I just finished high school and began college (but still living at home for now) (I focus on daygame anyways). I have studied game theory for a while now and have become very charismatic and am adept with many techniques. I feel like I could entertain someone for 10 hours if I wanted to. What to say is definitely not an issue in my case (although it used to be a very bad one). On top of that I feel like I should have plenty of hot babes in my life and fighting for my attention even though that is not reality yet. The problems is, I begin conversations and make others laugh but that is it. I'm not even getting rejected! It's just that I do so much talking that they aren't really investing I think. Here's the deal, I easily get numbers and they text back for the first day or two but then when I invite them to things (like the soccer game or the greek festival) in order to build my social circle it's like no one can come! It's like I've got this really great vibe but nothing is happening. Also I want girls to work for my attention. How does one play hard to get? Also, how does one get more people interested in you? And, how do you get a girl turned on? Also, is there a way to meet a girl and two minutes later invite her to go out for 'tea and stimulating conversation' the next day or whenever? Thanks guys for your help bigdreams |
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| Author: | beastmode [ Sun Sep 26, 2010 11:20 am ] |
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I'm in the same situation, and it gets frustrating trying to work girls that I've number closed when it feels like I played it well, and they still flake. I think a big part of it is comfort. When girls flake it's mostly due to lack of comfort, so try building more comfort and suggesting future activities the same day that you meet the girl. Also by talking too much you're probably not allowing enough sexual tension to develop. If you've already isolated the girl, which it seems like you do considering day-game, then don't be afraid of silence. It builds the tension and makes the experience more memorable. Mainly though I'd say don't give up on a girl after a day or two. If she's busy no big deal, you are too right? I'd really like to hear what other people have to say about this too though. |
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