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Author:  DisguisedAFC [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 10:12 am ]
Post subject:  Critique of first date
I'm brand new to the forums and relatively new to the pickup community so you'll have to forgive my lack of knowledge of the PUA jargon.

Anyways, on to my plight... Started fall semester about a week ago, met this HB8 in my class, and as luck would have it, the only chick in the class with 30 other guys, just kept it light and friendly at first, chit chat about small things on the first day, the next day I walked with her to her new class, again keeping it very innocent and playful. When we get to her next class, I ask for her number so we could "hook up" after receiving several IOIs and without hesitation she took my phone and punched her number in. I served her with a wink and told her I'd get around to calling her. this was at around noon this past thursday and I didn't call her until sometime saturday afternoon.

When she picked up, she was delighted to hear from me and jokingly referred to how I ignored her for 2 whole days and after a couple of minutes suggested that we hang out that night. I of course accepted. We went out that night for dinner and went and saw a movie(lottery ticket, not sure if it was a good choice of not, just throwing that out there). While on the date, she seemed rather standoffish and wasn't as receptive to my humor as she was before, which kind of threw me off, but I remained solid and didn't cave to AFC behavior. After the date was over and i was dropping her off at her place, I very casually said I had a great time and leaned in for a kiss, which she accepted, we made out for a good 30 seconds before I pulled away, licking my lips with a devilish grin on my face and said "Goodnight, I'll see you when I see you" and she smiled and said goodnight.

The next day, which is where I think I screwed up, I sent her a text in the morning when I woke up saying that I felt under the weather and busting her balls about how she went and got me sick. Over the course of the day, she kept her replies very short and cold, much different than before the date. I was very keen on this and promptly stepped back and didn't have much contact with her until later that evening, which went okay, but was still rather awkward. I get up this morning and she sends me a text saying that she is really confused about a lot of things in her life right now and that she just wants to be friends. To be completely honest, this is the first time I've ever been handed the "LJBF" card, and I have absolutely no idea how to take it and I'm left going over every little detail of the date and the day after in my head trying to figure out where I went wrong. Any input from you guys would be great, as long as this post is, I spared alot of the detail that I have been analyzing in my head, but will elaborate if need be for the sake of getting some clearcut, usable feedback.
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