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Author:  Mago [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 3:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Are IOI?
I need help, i do not understand if a HB10 is really interested to me.

he broke up with his former Boyfriend 20 day ago and now she is free :D
So i started chatting on FB

We often chat and she seem happy to do it and she often ask where i will spend my party night.

But i can not understand some things, can you help me?

1)she has over 1500 Facebook Friends..
When i contact her on chat she always reply and we joke and have fun(i use negs, funny stories, i amog her former BY) and she wrote or push "i like" button, only on my page(she never post in any page)..it's an IOI?

2)Last friday i met her in a party
She was dancing with 3 girls(her friends) and a stupid male who wants to fuck one of them (MF in the draw)
My friend and i were talking and she stopped dancing and talked with me only for 2 minutes, then he came back dancing(i wanted to talk but her friend caught her)
its an ioi?
(edit: i drew a pic but i can not post it: so

HB10
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Author:  Mago [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 3:06 pm ]
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Do i need 3 IOI in the same day/night or i can check IOI in more days?
Author:  Mungo [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 4:16 pm ]
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Seduction is not a computer program where you can go if number.of.IOIs => 3 then kiss.close. This look-for-a-cluster-of-3-IOIs thing is nothing but a rule of thumb, and to be honest with you, I don't like it one slight little bit. It's stupid.

IOIs are subjective. Things that Indicate Interest are IOIs. Now, you answer me: Do you think that her liking something on your facebook page inndicates that she's interested? It might, if she never, ever does so, but hey, she really only just clicked a button, right? I wouldn't read too much into it. And even if it's an IOI, it's not a very strong one. If she fiddles with her hair or makes strong glazy eye contact, now those are some pretty strong indicators. This is why the idea of looking for exactly 3 IOIs is so stupid - you may find 3 weak ones and end up making a fool out of yourself ("wtf, she liked my facebook status, her foot was pointed towards me and she asked for my name, and still she rejected my kiss") or you may miss an obvious opportunity because you foolishly waited for a third IOI after seeing two very strong ones.

The other one, I don't know either. It sure is a good sign that she comes over to talk to you, but it's a bad sign that she leaves after two minutes. You really can't just cross things off of a checklist like that. Again, you tell me: Was your interaction such that she seemed interested? If so, you've got an IOI. Otherwise, you don't. It's really that simple. Get a feel for the situation. If she seems interested, then game is on. Lists of IOIs are only for helping you spot IOIs that you may not notice otherwise. Context is always king.
Author:  afc_gone [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:14 pm ]
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IOIs on internet are harder to spot than in real life. I think that since she's chatting with you, you most be one of few of her FB friends that do this and the fact that she's chatting with you could be considered an IOI.

Now like Mungo said...you should write the whole context of the 2 minute talk. Maybe you bored her out or maybe she's trying to get you to chase her (that would be her gaming you :D).
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 6:51 pm ]
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If she did a like on page when she never do to others, I would say thats an IOI, but like other users are saying online gaming is different
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