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| Author: | vikratos_ [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | tough times...when you feel you want to give up |
Hey guys, I'm having one of those tough times, where I keep taking action and keep trying things but I get no success. This week I did a lot of sarging, I sarged Monday-Friday, 15 approaches a day, so I spoke to 75 targets this week. Do you know how many number I got...2, one was from some italian girls that were leaving soon and I wasn't bothered doing a day 2 because from my experience they just would meet up to learn to speak english GREAT. And another girl was unattractive...oh and there was another one...her story: a lesbian. I am trying to have an attitude of me just having fun but it's annoying when you see that there are other people out there, that have hot girls and all I get from girls is No's again and again and again. So I'm going back to the lab what is wrong with what I am doing ?: 1.Body language : i don't have weak body language, like shoulders hunched, crossed arms, twitchyness = i can't think of anything wrong there 2.Words : i use routines that create interest, i neg, i tease, i'm jokey and not serious, i don't swear a lot 3.Tonality : i try to vary it and sound interested, sometimes i am closed and a bit monotone because I am shy but i think i still create a friendly vibe 4.Attitude : i'm playful and interested, and i enjoy the conversations that we have, sometimes they even laugh a lot a have fun BUT then i say what steps can we take to meet again and we'll use telepathy or i send you a message by a pigeon - BUT WHY ?? I do all the FTC, being interested, kino, push and pull, jokey, nice to friends, but i can't n-close AND even if i do...all my day 2 have messed up...it seems the only reason why i have day 2s is because i live in london, lots of tourists, want to learn english and see me as a way to do that...I think I know the problem actually maybe it is the Alpha Male thing - i am not an alpha male, i might look nervous, unnatural, cold, stiff, a girl once said you look like your hiding something (because i am nervous), i look to needy, try to hard, and don't seem like a high-value male IF THAT'S WHAT IT IS I CAN ONLY THINK OF ONE THING I CAN POSSIBLY DO GO BACK INTO THE FIELD AND KEEP ON SARGING UNTIL I CAN F*CKING SARGE NO MORE, speak to these targets until i am no longer nervous around them - even though I am in a tough place now no matter how dark, impossible and futile everything seems I will not give up...not because i want sex and attention of girls and showing of about the girls i have but because i want to know that i did not give up when things were tough...a coward dies a thousand deaths but a brave man dies only once...i will not be a fucking coward because i was not put on this earth to run i was put on this earth to stay there and fight until i either win or die trying... I'm going sarging today |
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| Author: | haudas [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:12 pm ] |
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You should be an exemple for other dudes here,me include 8) I also have ZERO results when it comes to close girls,and im honestly losing my hope. And unfortunally im not being able to do what you are doing,and i GET VERY VERY anxious before talking to girls. |
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| Author: | Capps [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 1:40 am ] |
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k stop goin out n talkin to girls....find some buddies, watch some funny movies, go on a crazy trip do something thats gunna make u naturally interesting. All the canned crap sucks. If your opening 75 sets a week, u shuld b doin waaay better. Ive never been great with girls, im not very energetic n generally pretty negative, but i go out once or twice a week and get at least 2 numbers a night. Its probably not the nervousness thats killin ya its the neediness. They can smell it a mile away. Go out wit a group of guys and just have fun wit them, open sets around u as a group, bring a good wing out to take possible threats out. You clearly have no AA so just stop tryin so hard and it will come to ya. "When you cant change the direction of the wind, adjust your sails" |
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