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| Author: | Amaru213 [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 3:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | attraction/comfort clubgame - getting to the hook point |
Hey guys! I am gaming with attraction formula of Adam Lyons (Comfort, Breaking Rapport, Qualification, Sexual Escalation) and have big problems to build comfort in the club. Usually I dont have problems with comfort at all (am a nice guy), also not in the streetgame. But in the club a lot of girls get bored talking to me and say me often "These are not topics for the club!". I open them usually with a compliment about their dress and how it looks sexy and classy at the same time or an opinion opener (favorite:" whats the best way to approach a girl in the club? See, my good buddy has problem doing that and while we discussed it with our friends, everybody had different ideas.") Then I go into comfort by talking about some of these topics: - You are from XXX? I can tell, because people here are really friendly and open minded. what do you like most here? Can you imagine living somewhere else? - 3 best locations she visited and why? - 3 best characteristics (since "I am not impressed by beauty but by a good character") At this point many girls get bored and say they have to leave. So what do you suggest are the best topics to build comfort in a club? Actually the best results I see is when guys make her laugh after approaching and also during the conversation, but first this would be the breaking rapport part, and second I dont know what funny things to say before I even talked to a girl. Do you think that Adams Formula (Comfort comes before the attraction) is maybe not so good for clubgame, but more for bargame and daygame? I mean, in the club people just wanna have fun and therefore maybe it is better to create attraction first by being C&F instead of trying to figure out some similarities and talking about them. On the other hand Adam and loads of his students are having success with this method. I am not sure, if I should stick to this system and improve my game (creating attraction before the approach with more social proof, better body language / EC) or game with a method which focuses more on attraction, like DavidDeAngelo or RSD. What do you think? |
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| Author: | jazestix [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 3:16 pm ] |
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i'm not familiar with Adam Lyons game, but the questions u are asking above don't seem to fit very well so soon after approach, especially in club environment. they may be a little more appropriate after u have isolated. but even still, i would structure these questions differently to make the conversations seem more fluid. also, the compliments in the beginning are blowing the sets for u. that followed up with the mundane, banal questions being asked in a very interview-ish like manner is not creating any intrigue. in my experience of club gaming, women want to have fun. so u need to be more playful. tease, flirt, play games....create something of interest for her to be intriqued about. |
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