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Author:  redhammer [ Sun Jul 25, 2010 4:32 pm ]
Post subject:  lots of attraction and comfort but girl's not ready to emote

Hey guys! I'm stuck in this situation because I don't really understand the way that girl is thinking...

Two weeks ago I was introduced to a friend of my best friend's girlfriend after he showed me some nice pics of her on Facebook (she's an HB8 but presenting herself as an HB10). So when we met she seemed to be totally into from the beginning and I ran my material on her, receiving tons of IOIs. I really managed to flip her attraction switch. For example I used this anchor routine I use quite often by telling her that I was a man that could give her an orgasm just by one single touch (kino on arm/shoulder). In this moment she started to crawl all over me, moaning in my ear and grabbing my chest and stomach :twisted:
Well, I think you get the point^^ Then I went into comfort building (marriage role play, question game, cube, SOIs...) and kiss closed her :) The night went really well...

The next day my friend's gf told me that she hooked up with 3 other guys that night apart form me. But I didn't give a shit because I knew they were flakes and I had highest value of them all!

A few days later we met for a drink because she was about to leave to go to spain for a week. I had a very stimulating conversation with her, some sexual and some future based talk. She invited me to pay for my drinks and told me lots of things she would like to do when she comes back...
During her vacation I answered one of her hilarious marriage role play messages and challenged her with my message to write back. But she didn't, even we she was back at home...

So yesterday I went out with my best friend and his gf, and this girl came along aswell. We had some smalltalk and then I continued to game her...Again lot's of IOIs, took some pictures with her but I didn't get the time to be alone with her and kiss close her again.
Well, later she told me and her friends a story about some guy who she had sex with some time ago and complained that she wouldn't get any sex anyway and that she was incapable of having a relationship blabla. She told us about a friend of her telling her, "what about this cool guy from that club? (referring to me), he is much better looking than Robert (guy with whom she had sex)" And she said that she isn't sure about herself blabla...then she got interrupted by another friend telling her some shit -.-
Then we went to another club where she hooked up with some random guy again, but I knew that wouldn't matter cause I was still that high value guy... So I created a jealousy plotline by opening every single set in that club with Gambler's "unbreakable opener". She realised and wondered why I wasn't talking to her...
So she asked my friend and he completely destroyed her feeling being an HB10:

HER: Why isn't he talking to me and looking all serious?
HIM: I don't get your point, look he's having a good time (I really had, I was laughing with another friend who is also my wing in that moment)
HER: Oh, I see. But why is he talking to those girls blabla... He wouldn't get such a gorgeous gf like you (his gf is really sweet^^)
HIM: Haha, you don't know these guys very well, don't you? (also referring to my wing) You don't know what kind of girls they use to have.
HER: And why hasn't he had me then?
HIM: Hm, ask yourself, why has he not had sex with you yet?!

Then she got quite pissed I guess and her friends were asking me if I found her attractive and stuff^^ Later I left with my friends and didn't get the chance to say good bye to her cause she was making out with some random guy...and SHE got pissed AT ME for not saying good bye...

So I'm not sure how to go on with this girl...I don't know if I should keep gaming her because I know I could have slept with her already...I don't want all the effort I put in to be in vain, if you know what I mean.
I would appreciate some advice :)

Author:  leviathan7 [ Sun Jul 25, 2010 8:41 pm ]
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From what you have here I think she is just trying to game you. Being with other guys and whatnot is her way of making you think she is a hot commodity and that you should jump on her. (F'd up logic I know) However, as soon as you do this she will most likely reject you. I say your best bet is try to isolate her in a venue where you can escalate. As soon as you meet her just be really flirty and sexual with her right away, turn her on and move to a place where you can f-close her. If you don't do it quickly and strongly she will get distracted and start looking for other guys to build her ego. This girl seems kinda f'd in the head, so hit it a quit it.

Other idea is to use her friend to build you up and give you advise as to what type of guy she gets with and how you should procede.

Author:  redhammer [ Sun Jul 25, 2010 9:23 pm ]
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Thanks man, that's exactly the way I think about her too. I also think that she wasn't actually pissed at me rather than to herself because she couldn't prove herself being the hottest and most attractive girl in the club that every man wants to hook up with because I didn't fall for her shit test/frame games! Girls like her have a strong frame but yours has to be stronger I guess to win her twisted game :twisted:
I will try to build more jealousy plotlines if I ever see her in a club again, in order to DHV and be preselected and then proceed as you proposed. Otherwise I guess I have to move on and try not to fall into oneitis.

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