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Author:  ktime70 [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 9:03 am ]
Post subject:  After the lay
Ok, this is probably a wierd sticking point, but lately (last 5-6 months) i've been having alot of trouble seeing a girl AFTER i get the kiss close/fuck close.

i can generally get day 2's, and have no LMR when it comes to the lay, but when it comes time to catch up again after the deed's been done, no dice.
Author:  Buz [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 9:34 am ]
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ok could be a few things, my problem is actually the opposite they stick around when i'm looking for fun. anyway.

You maybe not have made your intentions clear on the day 2's i normally say straight out i'm either looking for fun or something else, although last time that didn't go so well.

It could be sexual performance, not saying you're bad in bed, but girls stick around if the sex is great.

maybe try spending just a little bit more time in comfort, and say you stick around, in a DHV story.

After sex snuggle watch a film, order pizza, call her the next day, all the stuff that we're told not to do in the begging :)
Author:  ktime70 [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 2:44 pm ]
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I have wondered about the sexual skill question. without acting full of myself, i doubt that is the problem (never had complaints/problems maintaining f/buddies/long term relationships/swinging relationships).

But you might have a point with the comfort side of things. i have tended to cut ALOT of what could "fit in" to the comfort stage out of my personality, due to trying to eliminate coming across as "needy". perhaps i need to restore the balance a little.

Thanks for the advice.
Author:  a40536 [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After the lay
it Could be any number of things, to be honest, i would suggest texting some of these girls and honestly asking them what you did, where you bad in bed ect..

Common Reasons:
1) your performance, remember your average women is not going to say "oh you are shit in bed!" unless she is in a bitch mood or just a bitch, grab yourself a copy of 2GTS and be better in bed, have them begging for more :)
2) they don’t want LTR
3) you didn’t have enough comfort you where just a one off :)
4) they have a boyfriend, and only wanted an one off, similar to 3 :)
Author:  Buz [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 6:04 pm ]
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But you might have a point with the comfort side of things. i have tended to cut ALOT of what could "fit in" to the comfort stage out of my personality, due to trying to eliminate coming across as "needy". perhaps i need to restore the balance a little.

Thanks for the advice.
Yeah, it's not about that stuff needing to be cut-out is about tuning it and knowing when to use it. Another good thing is besides saying you stick around in DHV story which is what i do, When you know it "it's on" before it gets to heavy, say you free next week, we should hang out then as well, but say it with a smile as if you know that's what she wanted to hear. and yeah just remember to keep the balance.

To much Attraction = Player
To much Comfort = LJBFZ
The right balance = Sex multiple times with her :)
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