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Author:  Hajamon [ Mon Jun 07, 2010 3:53 am ]
Post subject:  meeting 9s and 10s
Hey, Ive been having this problem for quite some time now, and i just cant figure out how to deal with it. Whenever i enter a club or a party and i try picking up girls i try an array of openers. I always try using cold approach questions or sometimes even direct but they tend to fail horribly. In the end i usually just resort to walking up and saying "Hi im Nick" and just go off from their. This method usually works with the 6s and 7s, but whenever i walk up to an 8+ they usually just blow me of (except for one night which ended up very well :D). I can keep using this to meet the 7s but ive been dying to figure out how to pick up the 8+ girls. Should i just keep practicing cold approaches? or is there another method
Plz help
Author:  Asserter [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 2:28 pm ]
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Your best bet is being yourself. If you can approach 7s and lower easier, why is this? Is it because you feel comfortable around them? Then as soon as you feel uncomfortable then you get blown away. Cold approaches, routines etc mean squat if the girl can feel that you are uncomfortable, anxious etc. Just relax, forget about unimportant bs and focus: do you really want/like this girl? Do you feel attracted to her? Then you can attempt to pursue her. I think it was Adam Lyons who said this (paraphrasing): don't go after the "sterotyped" hot babe that everyone wants, go for the girl you actually are attracted too.

On to the key issue: In my opinion the best game comes from within, not from some routines you learnt off by heart. What you wanna do is to demonstrate value, so be something that everyone else isn't: if everyone is talking to her (or trying to) ignore her. If no one is engaging her than you do. So relax, be yourself (your "best self"), feel confident, calm and in control. Soon as she picks up that you aren't full of shit and are the real deal she'll open up and want to talk to you.

Main point: Half the conversation is already done just when you come up to her, its all in the body language. So how you feel shows, even if you think it doesn't.
Author:  Hajamon [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:37 pm ]
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ya your probably right i have noticed the tension difference depending on how hot she is. The trouble is alot of the time i just keep having trouble opening up because they put up some sort of a bitch sheild or atleast i think they do, and it prevents me from acting naturally. I think ill get better with dealing with them the more i practice, but like if there are any general guidelines on how to crack them or methods of putting myself in a comfortable position quickly that would be great. And back to what you were saying the problem is that i tend to prefer the girls who are hotter :D and plus one of the goals ive been trying to accomplish from game, is to get comfortable talking to everyone and anyone, even if it doesnt lead to getting a lay. But either way your analysis helped alot. Do you tend to go natural? or do you use material?
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