Ive known this girl for quite awhile...I was an AFC when i met her and of course couldnt read the signs that she liked me and ended up stop talking to her...long story short weve been reconnected and I asked her if she would like to go do something sometime her reply was very strange in my eyes. She said that if she said yes to me she would end up hurting two other guys feelings more than she already has. BTW she hasnt dated either of them. My response was "Well you could think of it like this. if you like someone you should be with them instead of leaving these other guys hanging with false hope because ur only going to continue hurting their feelings by doing that. But thats just my opinion." her response was "I know every way of looking at it, but i hate hurting peoples feelings and now its kind of worse because i can see that im hurting them.
Ok so ya, what should i do? Drop her, freeze out, OR try some sneaky ass NLP patterns
....Any suggestions or help would be greatly appreciated.