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Author:  Rune [ Sat Apr 10, 2010 5:10 am ]
Post subject:  I really want to give up.

The field is a cruel teacher. It's one thing to read and hear this crap, but to put it into action.

...girls leave me for other dudes with an entourage, girls I meet up with bring their "male friends", who try to rip her away from me (And often fail); those I DO end up moving forward with are jarred back to reality by some other small useles detail.

Everytime I move forward, I never get it, and all my other friends get girls like nothing.


I'm tired. I'm angry. I want to kill people. Literally.
I'm sick of it.

Why do I fuck up all the time? No one else has trouble pulling in a girl, and here I am, fucking up left and right. It's not fair man. Fuck this.

I've really considered killing myself with a gun. My life's been too painful. I see these girls I talk to, and they have douchebag boyfriends. It's always the shitty people who get the girls man. Decent educated people like me...don't get shit. I'm stuck being frustrated and defeated around all turns.

This pua stuff is bullshit. Pure bullshit. I want fucking proof that this works. I think you're all fucking full of it. I go and I try to pull in some girls, but I always fucking fail. Don't tell me to go back out, I've went out twice a week for the past 2 months, and STILL no success. I can open, conversate a bit, and talk, but then the OTHER fucking douchebags come in for the kill.

I swear, I'm going to carry a fucking pocketknife, and shiv the next person who tries to kill my flow. I swear to fucking god. I'm dead fucking serious; I may resort to hurting any AMOGs that get in my way. I don't even fucking care about anyone. All I want is pussy; fuck everyone else.

Say what you want, none of this shit is working.

I reiterate the truth:

TO GET WOMEN, YOU NEED TO BE A FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT ASSHOLE. You don't need money, look, or fame; you just need to be a heartless dick.

Of course, I can slam a chair over some douchebag's head instead.
Fuck other people bro. I'm in it for ME. Screw the rest of you.

I don't know how that fag Mystery does it, or any of you other jackass "Gurus" out there do it either. You fucking prove to me this shit works. As far as I'm concerned, you're all money grubbing sadists.

I'm gonna keep going and check the field. I'm hit up bars, lounges, and social areas. I will find the secret, and when I do, I'm not sharing shit with you motherfuckers. People are fucking animals. Animals.

It's one thing to be able to APPROACH a woman, but to deal with the rest of you fucking scavengers. Watch out if you're near me, I will probably shiv you if you fuck with me.

Author:  Punchl!ne [ Sat Apr 10, 2010 9:32 am ]
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I say: Keep trying.

It isn't easy, but giving up won't help.

And your goal is, as you say, to "get pussy". If you go with the mindset of having fun instead? That's what I do and I think this "PUA bullshit" works pretty good.

I'm far from a master. I crash and burn, but I get up and keep trying.

Figure out what your true sticking point is. My guess is that you need to focus on your inner game.

Giving up is the only way you will actually fail

Author:  Rune [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 3:20 am ]
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Likewise, as cruel as the field is, it has it's moment of tough love.

...I'm still a child when it comes to women.
I don't know what the fuck to say or do. I can now only attract stupid, immature women.

For the quality ones, I need a bit of brass balls and manliness unlike any other. I need to get shit done, efficiently, effectively, and superlatively.

I need to grow up to get the women I want. Time to do what I need to do to become a man. No more kid shit.


To start, enough field time. I need to enjoy some time by myself.

Author:  Punchl!ne [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 3:38 am ]
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You know, ever saw the last lecture Randy Pausch gave?

"The Brick Walls are only there to show how badly we want something".

Patience is gold and every approach, every opening, every step you take towards your goal is one step closer to success. Failure only results in experience.

Just ask yourself how far you're ready to go and don't give up and don't be afraid to try new things. If you want something badly enough and never give up, eventually it'll work out.

Hell, I know you can do it.

Author:  Callum [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 12:50 pm ]
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Fortune favours the bold.

Every dog has its day.

Roll with the punches, don't give up. Lifes hard, the glass is always half full

Author:  Rune [ Mon Apr 12, 2010 2:21 pm ]
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Yep, weak moment.

Whatever is done in the field, must be done from the frame of a BIG, BRASS BALLED MAN.

The key word is MAN.
Not BOY, or TEENAGER, or YOUNG ADULT.

MAN.
A father
A leader
A warrior
A guardian
An intellectual
Confidence
Courage
Leadership
Honor
Valor
Integrity

A boy...does not have any of those.
A boy depends on others. A boy cannot lead. A boy CHOOSES to be weak.

A man has others dependent on HIM. He leads by example. He cuts no shit. He accomplishes his objective, and sets forth on another one. A man manages his emotions, controls them, and sets other's emotions off as well. A man has balls. A man has dignity, and does not tolerate disrespect. A man will put his foot down.

If a girl gives the man shit, the man puts her in her place, POLITELY. He does so as a gentleman, and without raising his voice, or displaying his dominance. His dominance is ASSUMED. All it takes for an assumed dominance is to BELIEVE you are the dominant figure, even if the situations you encounter demonstrate otherwise. You can only change YOU; therefore, it is your RESPONSIBILITY to be the best YOU.

Whine, moan, and bitch all you want; the man gets what he deserves, the boy gets nothing; for he is a boy; he is worthless.

Author:  suavaye` [ Mon Apr 12, 2010 2:56 pm ]
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Quote:
Yep, weak moment.

Whatever is done in the field, must be done from the frame of a BIG, BRASS BALLED MAN.

The key word is MAN.
Not BOY, or TEENAGER, or YOUNG ADULT.

MAN.
A father
A leader
A warrior
A guardian
An intellectual
Confidence
Courage
Leadership
Honor
Valor
Integrity

A boy...does not have any of those.
A boy depends on others. A boy cannot lead. A boy CHOOSES to be weak.

A man has others dependent on HIM. He leads by example. He cuts no shit. He accomplishes his objective, and sets forth on another one. A man manages his emotions, controls them, and sets other's emotions off as well. A man has balls. A man has dignity, and does not tolerate disrespect. A man will put his foot down.

If a girl gives the man shit, the man puts her in her place, POLITELY. He does so as a gentleman, and without raising his voice, or displaying his dominance. His dominance is ASSUMED. All it takes for an assumed dominance is to BELIEVE you are the dominant figure, even if the situations you encounter demonstrate otherwise. You can only change YOU; therefore, it is your RESPONSIBILITY to be the best YOU.

Whine, moan, and bitch all you want; the man gets what he deserves, the boy gets nothing; for he is a boy; he is worthless.
i felt like saying, "thats the spirit" after reading this lol
but your right you have to be a "friendly ass-hole" to deal with women, mystery is a fag, and i think it would do you some good to just get the # and get out of there before any douche bag has the chance to intercept

Author:  NJ [ Mon Apr 19, 2010 2:22 am ]
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I used to have simular problems myself! my probem was that I would open, neg, and then start showing interest.

I used to forget to false disqualify, and more importantly ask qualifying qeustions, baqsically setting a frame that says you are a catch, you are high value, and if she doesn't meet your standards you're not interested anyway! She should start working to get your approval, and at this point you can show interest. Not too much though! remember push Pull, then kino esculate.

The other important thing to remember is false time constaints, verbal and non verbal eg. body rocking.

If someone does crash your set and she doesn't introduce you roll off straight away, open another set, let her see you having fun with and getting attention from other women, you can always re-open her later, or 7 out of 10 times she'll re-open you, jealousy is a powerful emotion!

Trust me this stuff does work, its not easy though. there's alot of pieces to the puzzle that have to fit together before you can see the picture,

Hope this helps you, good luck

Author:  Antithesis [ Thu Apr 29, 2010 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I really want to give up.

Quote:
The field is a cruel teacher. It's one thing to read and hear this crap, but to put it into action.

...girls leave me for other dudes with an entourage, girls I meet up with bring their "male friends", who try to rip her away from me (And often fail); those I DO end up moving forward with are jarred back to reality by some other small useles detail.

Everytime I move forward, I never get it, and all my other friends get girls like nothing.


I'm tired. I'm angry. I want to kill people. Literally.
I'm sick of it.

Why do I fuck up all the time? No one else has trouble pulling in a girl, and here I am, fucking up left and right. It's not fair man. Fuck this.

I've really considered killing myself with a gun. My life's been too painful. I see these girls I talk to, and they have douchebag boyfriends. It's always the shitty people who get the girls man. Decent educated people like me...don't get shit. I'm stuck being frustrated and defeated around all turns.

This pua stuff is bullshit. Pure bullshit. I want fucking proof that this works. I think you're all fucking full of it. I go and I try to pull in some girls, but I always fucking fail. Don't tell me to go back out, I've went out twice a week for the past 2 months, and STILL no success. I can open, conversate a bit, and talk, but then the OTHER fucking douchebags come in for the kill.

I swear, I'm going to carry a fucking pocketknife, and shiv the next person who tries to kill my flow. I swear to fucking god. I'm dead fucking serious; I may resort to hurting any AMOGs that get in my way. I don't even fucking care about anyone. All I want is pussy; fuck everyone else.

Say what you want, none of this shit is working.

I reiterate the truth:

TO GET WOMEN, YOU NEED TO BE A FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT ASSHOLE. You don't need money, look, or fame; you just need to be a heartless dick.

Of course, I can slam a chair over some douchebag's head instead.
Fuck other people bro. I'm in it for ME. Screw the rest of you.

I don't know how that fag Mystery does it, or any of you other jackass "Gurus" out there do it either. You fucking prove to me this shit works. As far as I'm concerned, you're all money grubbing sadists.

I'm gonna keep going and check the field. I'm hit up bars, lounges, and social areas. I will find the secret, and when I do, I'm not sharing shit with you motherfuckers. People are fucking animals. Animals.

It's one thing to be able to APPROACH a woman, but to deal with the rest of you fucking scavengers. Watch out if you're near me, I will probably shiv you if you fuck with me.
Angsty aren't we? Have you ever considered that all the women rejecting you is just natures way of insuring sociopaths like yourself do not breed and produce more troubled offspring?

In that one little rant there is so much rage and venom just seeping from your words. Even through the text of the internet, you ooze such negativity and anamosity. The fact that you so quickly turn to promises of violence to solve your problems is even more pathetic. I understand that everyone gets frustrated or disappointed at times, but this rant is something else entirely. Women are not interested in guys who are constantly negative or angry. Women also do not like dating violent psychopaths who want to shank other people or break chairs over their heads. You need to seriously consider that it is not the world, or the women, or the AMOGS, but you that is the issue.

Like you said:
Quote:
...Fuck other people bro. I'm in it for ME. Screw the rest of you.
You'll get neither help nor pity from me.

~Antithesis

Author:  Corey [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 2:06 am ]
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Quote:
You need to seriously consider that it is not the world, or the women, or the AMOGS, but you that is the issue.
Erm, not in all cases is it the person in question's fault.......sometimes it IS the fault of others such as those fuckin amogs.......and quite frankly I agree with him.

Author:  darkfoxjj [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 5:29 am ]
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Read my post. I had a nice relationship till this guy showed up in her life. First she didn't like him. But because he cried to her over the telephone and told her that she misses her. She's gone all soft and actually wants to be with him? Can you believe it?!

Boyfriend stealers are a fact, how on earth do you deal with them?! It relates to this post I think. And I'm just showing you you're not the only one who has to deal with it.

Author:  Rune [ Sun May 02, 2010 7:39 am ]
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Man, I don't give a fuck if you think I'm angry or not.

I know what I gotta do, and that's be a dick, plain and simple. No good deed goes unpunished.

The moment you turn nice...shit goes to hell.



It's all about doing what must be done.

And what must be done is what gets results.



So fuck all haters.
I do what I gotta do. If someone invades, I silently destroy you.

The world is meant for fighters.

Author:  GIAQUINT0 [ Mon May 03, 2010 1:11 am ]
Post subject:  hey

im just sayin your not the only one...im almost 21(in october) nd im still a fuckin virgin. nd i feel like doin all the crazy shit u wanna do...i won't cuz i can control myself but thats how im feelin... my cousin is one of those piece of shit ass holes who get girls...all my friends get girls too nd im fucked up in the head cuz my dad is sick wit my mom bein a cheatin bitch...so i can relate to exactly what your talkin bout. honestly i need up close nd personal pua training but im a poor bastard that has to pay bills so i cant do so. so cheer up ure not the only one

Author:  Flynn [ Mon May 03, 2010 3:08 am ]
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you aint gona get shit with that attitude.. if you really think being a dick is gona get you girls go for it and when you get more negative results dont come back here because people wont have sympathy for you. i tried the be a dick head move and it doesnt work.

Author:  murph7613 [ Mon May 03, 2010 4:27 am ]
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Rune i think you need to see a shrink or you might turn in to a serial killer!!!!! Seriously

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