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| Author: | Tw1sTeD [ Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Crashed and burned in a 21+ club but im 18 need some opinion |
Ok so ive been at this for about 2 years and im 18 i recently met this promoter that hooks me up and lets me get in to 21+ clubs and drink all night even tho i dont drink, the deal is i got rejected on every single approach last night! i was able to grind with some girls and try to escalate but she wasnt feeling it. The night before i had one awsome group where i was fingering the girl on the dance floor and was able to make out with her but her friend ended up pulling here away, Thats the only good thing that happened that night. Am i getting rejected because i look way to young for a 21+ club and girls are expecting an older looking person or is 18+ clubs different from 21+? |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sat Apr 03, 2010 9:11 pm ] |
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Your getting rejected because you act desperate. You probably talked to every girl in the club so you look needy. Your probably skinny and you don't have a lot of friends. So that hurts your chances with women also. Remember going to a night club is about having a good time. Don't confuse it with a mission to sleep with a woman. You need to work on your inner-game. Don't worry about the club scene so much. It will come with practice, and friends. Get friends to go with you. I assume your friends can't go because its 21+ But whatever the case, it is not your age directly. It is your actions. |
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| Author: | Tw1sTeD [ Sat Apr 03, 2010 9:23 pm ] |
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Quote: Your getting rejected because you act desperate. You probably talked to every girl in the club so you look needy. Your probably skinny and you don't have a lot of friends. So that hurts your chances with women also. Remember going to a night club is about having a good time. Don't confuse it with a mission to sleep with a woman. You need to work on your inner-game. Don't worry about the club scene so much. It will come with practice, and friends. Get friends to go with you. I assume your friends can't go because its 21+
yeah i went with me and my wing we've gone to other events not 21+ and had pretty good successes but the problem is that they diddnt even give me a chance to act desperate because i got blown out in like 30 seconds / back turned and all that fun stuff, thats what had me thinking that it was because of my age compared to them and i weigh 145 pounds at 5,6 so i dont look that skinny but maybe i did convey some type of needyness the approach i use the most on a dancefloor is to start dancing and see a girl and spin her and start grinding for a bit which usually works, but that only worked only once or twice last night and they wouldnt let me escalate
But whatever the case, it is not your age directly. It is your actions. |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sun Apr 04, 2010 1:10 am ] |
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It's whatever buddy. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Some times nights are good. Other nights are better. Your still new so I wouldn't expect great success just yet. It takes a lot of practice. Luckly practice is fun. |
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