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| Author: | BennyB [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Don't know wat to do next! |
so, i met a this girl at a club one night. started talking to her and lost intrest, never did anything with her. Well a few months later i see her again but with her HB8 friend. I move in, this is befor i discovered PUA , im talking and building a raport with her, paying to much attention to her (AFC status), but at the same time her friend is all over me and im not feelin it at all, so i excuse myself for the night and give a lil acknowlegment when i see them. the night ended The next day i get a call from a wierd number I answer. ME: hello, who is this HB: sarah ME: how'd you get my number HB: lilly called you ME: well wassup witchu? HB: blah blah blah HB: oh its been 20 min you wanna talk to lilly, ME: sure, but imma keep your number so i can call you when im bored lol HB: K Lilly: blah blah blah ME: bye I then called her the next night and she talked to me for about an hour, FLUFF TALK, She told me about how her ex is real popular around here and no matter where she goes she still gets called so n so's girl. She still is standoffish because of that. but wheni told her i didnt know them she got all happy. She told me she always turns away guys at the club and is mean to them, ME: u werent mean to me when i walked up? HB: u didn't come at me the same way, u seem like you can be jus friends wit a girl, n i know my girl knows u and likes you ME: *changed subject* HB: U can call me whenever u get bored ME: aight then, later now im stuck what should i do next???? |
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| Author: | GameIsOn [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:47 pm ] |
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You should leave the HBs.You're stuck in the friendzone already , they didn't see your frame as possible boyfriend material they rather see you as a guy that wants good female friends.You created this problem by several things. - Your frame wasn't sexual enough (Not enough kino , bodylanguage , ... ) - Jealousy plotline and social value (They weren't impressed by your social value and you invested too much time in them ; calling someone for an hour is something a gay friend would do. Set a time bridge "This isn't really a good time to call me I'm actually just leaving to go ........ with my friends" Social proof + DHV + You show the ability to walk away , you do not need her unless she can prove herself worthy) - Meet other women ( Next time they call tell them you had/going to have a night out with this girl you met , she's really cute etc..) Also when they say "You can call me whenever you're bored" , fight back."I'm never really bored so when are you taking me out then ? " |
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| Author: | BennyB [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:12 am ] |
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Yea, i hella see that now that im doing more research and studying and applying. thanks for your advice!!!! do you have any advice on where i should go or jus leave it alone a jus be friends since the damage was done? |
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