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Author:  misanoma [ Sat Jan 30, 2010 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Not quite a sticking point, more of a side effect.

there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

alot of these routines seem to be made for a set type of girl. (basically your average HB9)

ive never struggled to get a girl, just thought i try a more structured approach with this community. although its all in the way you say it im finding it hard to pull a routine off without sounding rather arrogant!

ill get the line, "well you better prove it" or a girl being overly forward. i want the conversation to flow and have fun, not have to prove myself, and i hate DHVing! i dont think its natural, making myself sound good is annoying, i know im the flame and she will when the conversation finishes.

especially when you mix a DHV with a neg, then proceed to some good push-pull... its like its going too well, arrogance seems to creep in.

i thought it might be that im being over confident, or possibly using the wrong body language whilst doing a routine but im pretty sure its not either of those. maybe its that i make it sound like i do this alot? SPAM im travelling with world and meeting girls from EVERYWHERE so i can really refine my game.

anyone else notice this? thoughts?

Author:  Chillburg [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 3:22 pm ]
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If someone calls you out on being arrogant, maybe you really are TOO confident.

Still, this shouldn't be a problem, when she calls you arrogant, give her a little kiss on the cheek and say "You didn't deserve that kiss because you called me arrogant but i'm also a sweet guy and I felt like showing you. (but if you dont play nice, it's gonna be the last you'll get ;))" Disarms them, and it's okay kino.

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