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| Author: | cyrax68 [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | 2 weeks in the Game...hit my first bump..flaking.help.Asap! |
I have just discovered the game and my first sticking point..getting flaked on I met this HB8 at a party shortly after discovering the game and reading "The Mystery method",David Deangelo's double your dating ebook and listening to Swingcatts Foundation series.This I suppose was my debut for attempting to use the concepts they taught. Anyway at this party I number closed a HB8 and set up a day2. The day two went well, Movie grabbed a bite to eat,with steady kino ending in K-close,which could of turned to S1(MM),as she was keen and into me,but I was trying to avoid buyers remorse(7 hours??).. anyway we set up to meet 3 days later and i texted her to confirm the time and the convo below resulted...I can see some parts which i messed up on e.g. sharing my feelings to early....but I am very new to the game(2 weeks or so)....so I'm still learning....I know i should avoid one-itis but is this HB8 recoverable or should i just eject.....If there is a way to De-Afc my rep with this girl it would be good as it will be good practice as I'm 17 and can not yet go clubbing/bars and all my friends are to chicken to go sarging during the day.....but if it comes to sarging alone...I will....Thanks in advance -Joe HB:I think I may have to bail on this afternoon tho my mother is having a whole bitch fit about how I'm never home and never do anything with her Me:Thats alright...I had something on anyway..I was givin you a chance,cause I was starting to like you.....if not no biggie and all the best HB:I would rather do something with you then go out with my mum anyday but she is being a mass cow about it.Sorry and probs not idea to go there Me:yeah I don't accept flaking...if there is a time you have free id be glad to meet up...if not don't worry HB:ill text you when I'm free ya Me:Fair enough.....just don't waste my time HB: ok but i don't think its a great idea to start liking me Me:bahahaha why's that? HB:I'm to busy Me:Stop trying to impress me "her name" bahahahaha HB:That wasn't trying to impress you at all |
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| Author: | Conker [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:42 pm ] |
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When she flakes, I get all interested in why, and try to have fun with it. You can have a bit of a joke about it, relate to it with her, the point is to take the focus off YOU and how you "need" her to come out, or else. Whether or not it was legitimate or she was just playing cool for whatever reason, if you play with it she will see you're a fun person and offer to hang out with you at some other time. If you're being all macho and aggressive, it just shows you're hurt that she didn't come out - regardless if she had a valid reason or not. You can see the point in the messages where she turned around on you. Right after she put herself out there and said "I'd rather hang out with you" - girls pushing you away dont' say things like that. But you responded "I dont' accept flaking", that would have hurt after she put herself out there. She responded "I'll text you when I'm free" - that's a blow off. Anyway, the only thing you can ever do is just continue on like everything is cool. I think a nice way to make up is to call and just say you just wanted to see how she's doing, also in a conversation, take an interest in what she's saying or doing. That's like a mini present. |
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