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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is it stupid to give her space at this point? |
Hey guys,I know the general pick-up rules on this one-you must give her space. But my question is more of WHEN-timing.When should I give her space? Ok,I met this HB7 on FB the other day.It stated rocky(the vibes)but its now to the point of extacy. The girl is basically hooked,even telling me last night that she likes my vibes.If all goes to plan,she should be eating out of my hands real soon! But I've been playing too much offense.Im planning on making a calculated freeze out for a few days. Is it the right time to give her space while things are hot and high? Or do I risk fading out the great vibes if I do fall back? [/list] |
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:21 pm ] |
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If things are going well, I would keep riding the wave. I don't see the point of breaking the momentum if there's no need to. Sure, if she starts to balk in some way, giving her space or freezing her out could be a good move. But if she's on the verge of eating out of your hands, as you say, keep the positive vibes flowing. Have you met her in person yet, or is all of this exchange strictly online? If it's the latter, I'd suggest moving quickly toward seeing her face to face. Good luck, k-loc! 
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:38 pm ] |
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Great advice Ciornia;Im inspired(lol). I haven't met the target yet though.Its just been an online(FB)gaming so far.We live in the same town so a meet up is possible. I've thought about riding the high waves to the lay but there's a fucking road blocc-she won't really commit to a meet up!! Im really starting to think is this chicc just an online-flirter!!! So Ciornia or anyone else,give me a little advice on how can I get the target to meet up!! I said to her last night,"Internet vibes will fade out soon,so meeting up is inevitable".She said,"Nope". Im figuring it's just part of the dance-the push-pull.Women enjoy the thrill opposed to just committing. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:11 pm ] |
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Maybe you're right and she is indeed just an online flirter. I dont do online game (at least not with 'strangers') so I'm no expert, but I think freezing her out could lift the curtains a bit and show you if she's really into you or just messing with you. Do you guys also text eachothers phones or? If she doesnt want to meet up face to face, you can go out with your buddies sometime and tell her she should come and bring her friends too, a lot less pressure on her that way. Maybe she's a keyboard-samurai(ess?) and she's all flirty and upfront online but too shy in real life to meet. Let us know how it went Chillburg |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:15 am ] |
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Chillburg,you are a fucking genius(lol)! As you figured,I don't have her #.I looked at the logistics before and I decided going for a # would be a mistake.So I only have FB chat to rely on. Im beginning to think that chicc's just an internet flirt(as Chillburg said also)thats why I hadnt gone for a #close.And she does seem like an LSE or shy girl,so meeting up would take plenty work. There's a musical fest tonight on the island and I figure to invite her out with her friends(as Chillburg said again).I figure that her being out with her peer group and her friends,she'd feel more comfort. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:26 am ] |
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Quote: Chillburg,you are a fucking genius(lol)!
I try, thank you As you figured,I don't have her #.I looked at the logistics before and I decided going for a # would be a mistake.So I only have FB chat to rely on. Im beginning to think that chicc's just an internet flirt(as Chillburg said also)thats why I hadnt gone for a #close.And she does seem like an LSE or shy girl,so meeting up would take plenty work. There's a musical fest tonight on the island and I figure to invite her out with her friends(as Chillburg said again).I figure that her being out with her peer group and her friends,she'd feel more comfort.  hahaBut seriously, maybe getting her number wouldnt be such a bad idea. If you guys take it 'to the next level' (lol) by texting or calling (i see that as something more intimate than facebook chat to be honest, even texting) she might open up more as well. Being in more aspects of her life (besides internet, also on her phone) will build some more comfort I think. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:28 am ] |
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oh and if you are going to meet up tonight you will HAVE to get her number so you can call if you can't find each other 
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:09 am ] |
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Just to add to 1 of Chillburgs' points,I some believe that internet gaming or chattin via messengers are sme what out of reality,meaning-what goes on on there doesn't exist.Example:if a girl were to say that she likes me(online),she may act totally indifferent to that in person as if she never said that!!!Its like it didn't count since it as online. Now,over the phone,its much more intimate and real.That's why Im trying to phase shift to a meet(or even #close).The longer I stay gaming this HB7.4 online,the more she'd become comfortable with just that-onlining. |
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