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Author:  Farbz [ Sun Jan 17, 2010 8:37 am ]
Post subject:  After F-closing sticking point. taking it further.
Latly i've realised i am a PUA, and im good. Im getting to the point where any girl can be mine. Heres my problem i can game a chick and get the F-close but thats it. After I F-close it's over i can't take it further i can't get another date with her it just dies.

Normally this is not to much of a problem even if i would like to get to know the girls more but now i've found the one. I don't want to loose her so i closed with her last night and all has been well, but then she sent me a msg saying she doesn't want anyone to find out wat we did. ( theres other complications because a mate of mine likes her ) but i don't care he didn't take his opertunity.

So how do i reply to that msg? still having hopes to do it again....
Is it a shit test? Is she feeling guilty? I don't get it why wouldn't they want to re-meet after having a great night???

Where can i find information on wat to do after F-closing
Author:  Chillburg [ Sun Jan 17, 2010 4:35 pm ]
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Looking back, did you establish an emotional connection with the girls as well? If they are just attracted to you but not comfortable, they might get buyers remorse/regret later, because it can make them feel like a 'slut' for sleeping with you that easily.

I usually lay my dates/targets the first or 2nd night if i'm just looking for some action (if i like them I wait a little longer), and I try to make sure I establish somewhat of an emotional connection as well. (but then again, some girls are just in it for the lay.) The ones that are looking for more will always come back if you have an emotional connection as well as the attraction.

Her text: to me it seems like she regrets it, because she doesnt want the other guy to find out.

I dont know if you've lost her, because she could be careful about the other guys feelings as well.

Right now I cant really think of anything you could reply besides "It will be our little secret ;)"
Author:  Farbz [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:07 am ]
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Our little secret, that'd woudla been a good reply...i sent one saying i wouldn't and havn't said anything it's gone down ok so far...and it was our 3rd meeting and it was pretty good comfort.
Author:  Chillburg [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 4:08 pm ]
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If things seem to be okay now, continue to hook up with her and just make her forget all about the other guy (be sure not to mention him at all, I know its pretty tempting to say something like "oh I bet **other guys name** cant make you feel this good").
Author:  havocc [ Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:24 pm ]
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I currently have the same problem as you bro. I'm getting fairly good at attracting and laying the girl but not much happens after that.

As someone mentioned before I believe the problem is not establishing enough comfort with the girl.

These same girls had a lot of LMR and I plowed through to get the lay but left soon after I f-closed them. This, in my opinion, triggers major buyers remorse.

Now I'm adjusting my game to include more comfort building during the initial attraction as well as after the lay and it seems to be working better. I've only slept with one girl since I started this so I wouldn't call it field tested yet. Maybe one of the more experienced guys could chime in on this....
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