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| Author: | PAINKILLER [ Sun Jan 10, 2010 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Confused with my situation. Advice needed! |
So I hit it off with this girl great for about 4 weeks. She was heaps into me etc and there were no signs of this changing. The whole time, I always disarmed shit-tests. She could really had no control over me what so ever, and the playful flirty vibe was always there. I get a text from her saying something towards the line, "i miss you and its only been a day" to which i replied "well you'll get to see me sometime when im not busy". From the next time i saw her and the past two times ive caught up with her, there's been way less kino and no direct signs of attraction from her like kissing etc. And I really did feel that she was gf worthy back when she was attracted to me in this way. This whole time I've still been living my life hanging out with my mates and seeing chicks but only to have a good time so its not as if ive been pedastilling her above my own life. I don't consider myself a pua. I feel like I waited too long to close for a relationship with her and should have been more direct about how i felt and less 'hard to get'. So my question is, I feel the friendzone is coming up and I want some advice how to avoid it and turn it around? No direct words by her have hinted at this, but non-verbals like lack of touching/body language have. I've considered a freezeout/no contact as one of the best ways to approach this. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:44 am ] |
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Bro you have gotten iois so now you WANT to show interest. If you keep acting like you're not interested in a girl you're only going to end up with a pathetic girl who has nothing going for her, or they're gonna actually believe you're not interested. The girl said she missed you and you blew her off. That's not gonna make her feel nice. You don't have to tell her you miss her a lot too but you could've said something to make her feel better like "i'll see you soon babe, don't worry." The best thing for you to do now is go direct. Take her aside and tell her how you really feel. Its a sign that you're comfortable with yourself if you can open up to a girl and admit that you've been wrong. Relationships are a one way street. You have to both be moving in the direction of love. Playing head games with your other and being manipulative is not out of love. It is a sign of insecurity. Insecurity is not attractive. Go direct. Don't be overbearing but be apologetic. Do something sweet for her AFTERWARDS. |
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| Author: | PAINKILLER [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 12:00 pm ] |
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I think what you've said is the best option. So have other mates of mine. I told her we needed to talk asap and she said shes busy all week. I don't wanna do it in any other way but in person so I feel waiting is the only way possible but I'm not the type to wait for anyone. So in the mean time I'm really confused with talking to her in the mean time over fb etc. She kind of freaked out when i texted her saying we need to talk in person and really wanted to know right then and even asked me to call her about it but i said it has to be in person. She seemed really frustrated and moody because of it so i stopped replying. |
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