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| Author: | Jodokus [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 3:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New guy learning about playing the game |
Hey guys, new member here. I'm new to the game and I'm just learning about it, and I had a couple of questions on what I should have done, and on what I should do next. Last night I went to a club (one with five different theme-rooms) with a couple of friends, who don't know I'm reading up on this stuff. Of course every room had the volume turned up to 'permanent ear damage', except one room which was more like a rock café. There I met a 7 with a 2 girlfriend. One of my friends was going apeshit, dancing like an idiot, so I opened to her about how sexy he was looking and everything. Michael Jackson was playing and I steered the conversation into 'learning her how to do the moonwalk'. Long story short: I used a false disqualifier, negged her, challenged her, got two definite IOIs, maybe more that I didn't pick up on (was too busy keeping the conversation flowing naturally), did some kino, and then we started talking about dancing. She said that this rock café wasn't really the place to dance, so I invited her to go upstairs (to the dance/trance/urban themed room with a huge dancefloor). Her ugly girlfriend had been whining about her stomach ache for several minutes now, so the 7 was really doubting. They consulted and then decided that she wanted to go upstairs for a quick dance. So the 7 and I dance, closely. She'd told me that she danced for years, did some hip-hop as well, so I challenged her to show me something, 'because I know you can do more'. She resisted. I showed her some moves (just dumb stuff, but it made her laugh), we stared, but she kept looking away after two, maybe three seconds. So I made a bit of comment about her having great eyes, but that it was too bad she kept hiding them from me. After ten minutes of that, her girlfriend started gesturing and shit, like a proper cockblock. So the 7 said she really had to leave. I made her 'kiss goodbye' on the cheek, handed her my phone and made her enter her number. My questions: 1) How could I have k-closed? 2) What should I text her? 3) Is it okay for PUAs (in training) to kill those fricken' cockblockers? I'm good at pushing but I can't seem to work in a decent pull. Usually I can build comfort, but it's hard to switch from attraction to comfort. So any tips on this situation would be very helpful. Thanks in advance. |
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