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| Author: | AxeltheSwede [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 12:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | The texting game. |
Hey guys. My biggest issue is my texting game, maybe because I use sarcasm a little bit to much while amoging, and I just wondered if anyone had any tips of what to keep the conversation going and building up an interest? At the moment I am talking to three girls, one that Ive alread hooked up with several times, one who is in one of my classes and I always catch her glancing/staring at me, then a new one ive only met once. Thanks for reading guys, I could use any help I could possibly get. |
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 4:45 pm ] |
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Texting can be a tricky business, AxeltheSwede. As with e-mails, texts are easily misinterpreted, and girls can be offended by a tone that you intended only to be playful. Like you, I have a natural ironic/sarcastic humor, and I've had the experience where girls react badly to something I've written in a text. So my suggestion would be to, at a minimum, stay cautious with your wording when texting. But the real lesson -- which I've learned the hard way -- is to focus on calling girls and talking to them in person. In those contexts, girls can hear your tone and/or see your smile when you say something, so there's much lower risk of being misinterpreted. Plus, talking live is a much better -- and quicker -- way to build rapport with a girl. And that's really what you're looking for once you've established attraction, which it sounds like you've already done well. Check out this thread for discussion of this topic: when-the-girl-reacts-negatively-to-a-neg-vt56886.html Good luck! |
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| Author: | Barney Stinson [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 3:49 am ] |
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Naturally I'm very sarcastic as well. I wouldn't say to not be yourself, but be very careful of how much rapport you have built up with the girl already when using sarcasm. Also, don't text too much. Texting should only be used to keep you in her mind and/or set up a meeting. Using text to progress the relationship further is not the way to go. I also like to end the conversation, ideally with something that portrays value. She will notice if you always end the conversation. This is an Alpha characteristic and portrays she is not the only thing in your life. Examples: I gotta run. I'm late to meet friends. I'll talk to you later, I'm off to the gym. Hope this helps, B-Man |
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