PUA Forum :: Flaking

Yeah I've had that problem a LOT.

My current working theory is that you MUST MUST MUST set up a day two, a time bridge, at the end of the first time you meet her.

I reckon end the time you meet her yourself, so you definitely get your chance to set up a day 2, rather than it ending before you have a chance. (Shouldn't end it early if things are progressing steadily, of course, up to you)

To me it now seems like setting up for a day 2 after you already left each other, seems a bit weak.

Not to say it can't be done at all - I'm sure if you're fun and flirty enough in the phone call you can re-build the attraction.

What's a time bridge?

I open without any problems and I seem to naturally DHV to my target. Number closes are a piece of cake for me.

However, I have a problem with flaking. I find that when I call or text a girl, she doesn't seem as interested in making plans to hang out as she did when we first met.

I know it's just flaking and it happens to everyone, but it happens to me a disgusting amount of times. What methods do you use to reduce flaking?

* I don't wait long to call/text, usually within the first 48-72 hours.

Author:	Ace7305 [ Mon Dec 07, 2009 10:38 pm ]
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I open without any problems and I seem to naturally DHV to my target. Number closes are a piece of cake for me. However, I have a problem with flaking. I find that when I call or text a girl, she doesn't seem as interested in making plans to hang out as she did when we first met. I know it's just flaking and it happens to everyone, but it happens to me a disgusting amount of times. What methods do you use to reduce flaking? * I don't wait long to call/text, usually within the first 48-72 hours.

Author:	Conker [ Tue Dec 08, 2009 10:07 pm ]
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Yeah I've had that problem a LOT. My current working theory is that you MUST MUST MUST set up a day two, a time bridge, at the end of the first time you meet her. I reckon end the time you meet her yourself, so you definitely get your chance to set up a day 2, rather than it ending before you have a chance. (Shouldn't end it early if things are progressing steadily, of course, up to you) To me it now seems like setting up for a day 2 after you already left each other, seems a bit weak. Not to say it can't be done at all - I'm sure if you're fun and flirty enough in the phone call you can re-build the attraction.

Author:	Ace7305 [ Tue Dec 08, 2009 11:13 pm ]
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Quote: Yeah I've had that problem a LOT. My current working theory is that you MUST MUST MUST set up a day two, a time bridge, at the end of the first time you meet her. I reckon end the time you meet her yourself, so you definitely get your chance to set up a day 2, rather than it ending before you have a chance. (Shouldn't end it early if things are progressing steadily, of course, up to you) To me it now seems like setting up for a day 2 after you already left each other, seems a bit weak. Not to say it can't be done at all - I'm sure if you're fun and flirty enough in the phone call you can re-build the attraction. What's a time bridge?

Author:	ATM16 [ Tue Dec 08, 2009 11:48 pm ]
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Quote: What's a time bridge? Its like a way of setting up a date after you have approached a target by letting her know about a really fun activity your going to be doing later on in the week and using it to get her to come with you it helps because if your already going whether or not she decides to come with you making any kind of rejection she gives you even more insignificant that it would have been had you just asked her out for dinner and she said no because either way your going and your going to have fun whether she's there or not. styles-timebridge-close-vt5751.html

Author:	Chris101 [ Wed Dec 09, 2009 2:27 am ]
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I can relate very well, this is one of my biggest problems that I still haven't managed to overcome. I keep a record of every number close by writing them down in my journal book... after counting there's about 67, but I've only been on about three/four dates in total. I think that pretty much sums it up. Numbers don't mean anything if there's no attraction or you haven't made a proper connection with someone. So yeah, I would also need some tips on changing or improving my game style...

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Author:	Conker [ Wed Dec 09, 2009 3:32 am ]
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A time bridge is sorting out ANY reason for the two of you to see each other again, before you part ways - hence bridging the time between now and when you see her next. Doesn't actually matter what it is, inviting her along to something is just one example.

Author:	jurupa [ Wed Dec 09, 2009 10:25 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Flaking
Quote: I open without any problems and I seem to naturally DHV to my target. Number closes are a piece of cake for me. However, I have a problem with flaking. I find that when I call or text a girl, she doesn't seem as interested in making plans to hang out as she did when we first met. I know it's just flaking and it happens to everyone, but it happens to me a disgusting amount of times. What methods do you use to reduce flaking? * I don't wait long to call/text, usually within the first 48-72 hours. Sounds like you are not building up enough attraction really. Because if you where then girls would less likely to flake on you. As girls generally flake when they are not that interested in you.

Author:	HI! My name is [Dsian] [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 2:59 am ]
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Maybe start making plans the first time youve met with her. So that you cement it into her head and get her number her facebook etc.. Just to solidify the plans and have something concrete.

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