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Author:  aka Nice [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  She said I'm to young
Hey guys,

I went to the club yesterday and was talking to this girl. We were talking voor 20 minutes and we played the question game, it was going good.
But when I told here I was 20, she told me I was to young because she was 24. What can I do about that, when it happens again, just lie about my age??
Author:  Mister Boss [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 8:33 pm ]
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The age difference is probably an excuse.

You can either consider this as a shit test or an IOD. Either way, just play along and continue gaming.

Don't lie about your age.
Author:  Schlarbaum [ Fri Jan 08, 2010 6:48 am ]
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Say something like..
It's fine, I'll give you some time to get over it. (with a smile).
Author:  Chief [ Fri Jan 08, 2010 7:46 am ]
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Oh, man, this stuff is easy! Trust me, there is absolutely no need to lie when you're gaming a girl, EVER. I'm 20, too, and I game older women all the time.

Controlling for the age disparity issue is all a matter of frame control. Here's a little quote from one of my FRs a long time ago:
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I tell them I'm 18. They freak out and won't even tell me how old they are. All I know is that they're between the ages of 20-something and 30. I treat it like it's no big deal, treating the girls like they're weird for making any sort of issue about it. They're throwing shit-tests at me like crazy now, telling me that I'm just a baby and that I look like I'm in high school or some shit like that. I brush off the tests like dust and reframe the entire situation. "Alright, listen. I know you two wish you were young again, so I've got a little present for you. Just for tonight, you two are going to be 18 all over again!" (said with kino of course) At first they responded like old people, "Ohhhh my god it's been so long since I was that age," but with a persistent positive frame I eventually got them excited about the idea. Hey, I already had them hooked before we even got on the dance floor. This was easy peasy at this phase of the game. I even did some takeaways and opened other sets to preserve my value. Attraction was building. Whenever they would try to frame my young age as a bad thing, I'd reframe by negging them for being old, following it up with something like, "but how does it feel to be young again tonight? Woohooo!" This strengthened the frame that young = good.
That was a 2-set of older women in a club in Korea, a country where your age alone determines where you stand on the social hierarchy. I kiss-closed both of them that night!

As long as you are 100% confident that she is already into you, you can pass any shit test she throws at you easily.
Author:  Johnny B. [ Fri Jan 08, 2010 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She said I'm to young
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Hey guys,

I went to the club yesterday and was talking to this girl. We were talking voor 20 minutes and we played the question game, it was going good.
But when I told here I was 20, she told me I was to young because she was 24. What can I do about that, when it happens again, just lie about my age??
All she wants to know is that she doesent have to baby sit you. She wants someone who brings something positive/ beneficial into her life instead of causing her more distress.
So dont panic when she says " Oh, you are so young " because all you need to do is that you dont submit to this role which she is offering to you ( you being a kid and there fore having less " value " and dominance ). By this im not talking about you turning into a total dick but instead demostrateing that you simpply wont let this affect to your interaction you are having with her. Instead of retreating back to your shell add more heat to your game because this is your change to hold your ground and make an impact.

So basically hold onto your frame. Dont let her see how it crumbles when she is testing it but instead let her see how it gets even more stronger and powerfull.

[ Johnny B ]
Author:  thelenzel [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She said I'm to young
Quote:
Hey guys,

I went to the club yesterday and was talking to this girl. We were talking voor 20 minutes and we played the question game, it was going good.
But when I told here I was 20, she told me I was to young because she was 24. What can I do about that, when it happens again, just lie about my age??
As a PUA you should never have to lie (:
Author:  aka Nice [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:41 am ]
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Thanks guys, some usefull tips I will use next time. I am loving this game more and more every day lol :p
Game on
Author:  Spairert [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:57 pm ]
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A friend of mine is a natural, and I've gotten lots of pretty cool responses from him when faced with stuff like this.

If a girl says you're too young, just employ reducto ad absurdum. Take the silly notion of her comment, that 4 years is too big an age difference, and make it ridiculous in a funny way. Example:

"20? You're too young for me."
"Yeah, actually I could use some advice on the whole 24 thing. How do you deal with the joint pain? See, I jog/play guitar/work out/etc, and it's really gonna mess me up."

You could rip on her for any aspect of old age that won't actually kick in for several more decades. Senility, funeral homes, dentures, all that unpleasant stuff.
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 8:05 pm ]
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As a PUA you should never have to lie (:
Excellent.

She didnt care about your age. She just said something that seemed logical and left. You lost the set, thats all. You are gonna hear stuff like this some time and its never more honest than "No hunny those pants dont make you look fat". Its just a thing people say to get out of a situation without a scene.
Author:  NastyTime [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:21 pm ]
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No, she was probably truthful. She wasn't interested because girls know relationships with younger guys are usually just sex and nothing long term.

When she asked for your age and you think she is older. ALWAYS avoid the question. Be cocky funny. I say "old enough" or "an experienced age" to answer her question. Then i go on saying age doesn't matter, "i have an uncle that married a girl 10 years older; and they are perfectly happy". She will think you are younger but know it won't be an issue. I then tell her i was once with a girl that was 28. Everything was great except she had a kid and i was not ready for that. Then ask her if she has a kid? Then assure her there is no issue.
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 10:48 pm ]
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Eeer, 20, 24 same same...
Author:  Smartbomb [ Mon Feb 15, 2010 8:34 pm ]
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Girls are most interested in long-term providers. If she sees you as a young buck, she perceives you as not being able to provide for her more sophisticated tastes and will go for older, more secure men. If you want to go after older women, you need to make sure your game doesn't come across as juvenile. Even if you look young, looks can be overcome by a good routine. I dated older women when I was in college. Three notches in my college bedpost were from seniors when I was a freshman.
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