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Author:  mariosabljak [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Got kind of a problem here
So I met this girl at a party, we talked, and even talked through IM and at school a couple days. But then for some reason, I kinda stopped talking to her at school, and through IM for reasons I really dont know. Like I mean I ignored this chick. And I was creeping her facebook convo with some other girl (guilty as charged :wink:) and she wrote that she was "pretty pissed i didnt get talked to today" after she kinda stood near me. So now I'm thinking if I should start talking to her again like nothing happened.. or what? I need some advice guys.

*btw, I def like her. and the reason I ignored her for like 2 weeks was to see if she would show interest, and approach me or something
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got kind of a problem here
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So I met this girl at a party, we talked, and even talked through IM and at school a couple days. But then for some reason, I kinda stopped talking to her at school, and through IM for reasons I really dont know. Like I mean I ignored this chick. And I was creeping her facebook convo with some other girl (guilty as charged :wink:) and she wrote that she was "pretty pissed i didnt get talked to today" after she kinda stood near me. So now I'm thinking if I should start talking to her again like nothing happened.. or what? I need some advice guys.

*btw, I def like her. and the reason I ignored her for like 2 weeks was to see if she would show interest, and approach me or something
Well it sounds like she's showing interest so it's okay to show interest back. Talk to her! :D
Author:  Mister Boss [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:55 pm ]
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Talking to her IRL ofcourse, just in case you weren't sure :wink:
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 1:56 am ]
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The whole purpose of "running your game" is to get interest. Once you have interest, work on closing.

Don't let getting caught up in the game stop you from closing. If you see this girl on a regular basis and don't talk to her you're not running the game you think you are. You should talk to her in a way that makes her want to seek your approval. Judging that she was upset that you didn't talk to her makes it evident you already had her approval, and failed to recognize.

Talk to her like nothing happened; like you did not ignore her on purpose. Give her a reason. Don't tell her you were out with other girls or anything like that. She already telegraphed she's mad about not being a priority. She likes to party. Take her to one.
Author:  mariosabljak [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 3:02 pm ]
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The whole purpose of "running your game" is to get interest. Once you have interest, work on closing.

Don't let getting caught up in the game stop you from closing. If you see this girl on a regular basis and don't talk to her you're not running the game you think you are. You should talk to her in a way that makes her want to seek your approval. Judging that she was upset that you didn't talk to her makes it evident you already had her approval, and failed to recognize.

Talk to her like nothing happened; like you did not ignore her on purpose. Give her a reason. Don't tell her you were out with other girls or anything like that. She already telegraphed she's mad about not being a priority. She likes to party. Take her to one.
wow dude, never thought it about like that. btw, what should i say if she asks or complains that I haven't talked to her, and/or ignored for 2 weeks.

*I also see her everyday at school, shes in one of my classes.
Author:  mariosabljak [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 1:41 am ]
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anyone??
Author:  jbrad [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:56 pm ]
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I think you may have let it go a little too far. The best place to have her is confused, not upset. When she gets upset you may lose her because your value has gone too high.

I would start talking to her here and there, maybe one really good, fun, long conversation, and then wonder off for a little bit (not 2 weeks).

More time isn't always better. It really is an art.



...oh when you start talking to her again, don't just say "hey, what's up" - have a good reason to start the convo, like "Youll never guess what happened today..." something that you just HAD to tell her. And the news should be applicable to her, not "I did great in the football game today"
Author:  mariosabljak [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:26 am ]
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lol, now i just gotta find something interesting to tell her, this is gonna be harder than i thought
Author:  mariosabljak [ Wed Nov 18, 2009 2:59 am ]
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Alright, so now things have changed. Today, out of nowhere (and I wasn't even expecting it), shes texts me! So I'm guessing (correct me if im wrong) that she is attracted if she decided to text me after totally ignoring her? So i think im gonna try and get things going with her. btw, i dont want to come off as needy, so should i talk to her on IM, or just at school?
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