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| Author: | DmacIV [ Sat Nov 07, 2009 7:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need help with an HB9.5 |
I've been talking to this girl in one of my classes for a while now, shes a HB9.5 and we get along really well together. We text each other all the time in like a playful bantering way and she always calls/texts when shes drunk. She told me she feels so comfortable around me and we flirt alot. One day i asked her whats the longest relationship shes ever been in and she said 5 years, then later that night she said something like "i feel like you had to know that." But i didnt really know what that meant, she also asked me if Im a relationship guy or a hookup guy and i told her it depends on the girl. One night she asked me if i liked blondes or brunettes (shes a blonde) and i told her usually im all about brunettes but something about her i like, maybe its her eyes and her face lit up with one of the biggest smiles ive ever seen. When it was my bday she left all her friends to come meet up with me and ended up sleeping in my bed but nothing happened. the other night i told her that i felt like i was starting to like her and she gave me the "just got out of a long relationship" speech and said we should just be friends for now and that in order to be in a relationship with someone shed have to know them for atleast 6 months. But she still texts me all the time, ive been making myself less available as of late but to be honest the thought of her has been keeping my up at night. Any advice on how i should proceed? Thanks |
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Sun Nov 08, 2009 3:58 pm ] |
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Well you are only there as her emotional dustbin,you are like a friend she tells everything too.People like her will usually tell you all their problems.Being the emotional sustbin is not a good place to be in. This will be hard but you have to start blanking her,only reply to some of her texts and reduce the amount of times you call her. At the moment you are like her teddy bear you want to be more like her rampant rabbit. |
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