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Author:  Ed Ache [ Tue Nov 03, 2009 5:39 pm ]
Post subject:  One-it-is, Girl doesn't do dating

Hi All

I am new on here and new to game in general. I finished reading The Game and then The Natural Art of Seduction only over the weekend. It made me realise where i have been going wrong with girls in the past.

My problem is that i have one-it-is. Or at least i think i do. I met a girl recently and we have been out a few times in the past few weeks. At our last meeting i told her that i liked her, and that i would like to take her out on a proper date sometime. She replied saying that she doesn't do dating. Which kind of sidetracked me.

She said she likes hanging out with me but doesn't do dating as she finds the idea nerve wracking. So i feel i have been put in the friend zone and i dont know how to deal with it. Do i move on and not talk to her again, or do i consider this a test and plough on and try and arrange another date?

The problem i have is i am the 1 that always has to contact her and suggest things to do. If it was left upto her we wouldn't be chatting anymore. At least that is what i feel.

Any suggestions and help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Author:  Molson [ Tue Nov 03, 2009 7:48 pm ]
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Yeah, sounds like you're chasing.
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At our last meeting i told her that i liked her, and that i would like to take her out on a proper date sometime. She replied saying that she doesn't do dating. Which kind of sidetracked me.

She probably really said this because of how you mentioned your intentions. I like you and want to date you = you lose.

I would say take a few days off and do something casual again.. once you get the meeting you need to start escalating out of the friends zone with kino as soon as she is comfortable and in a good mood that you have put her in.

Author:  Ed Ache [ Wed Nov 04, 2009 1:28 pm ]
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Thanks Molson.

I just got to get her out now, as she is working late in the run up to xmas

Author:  Whorable [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 1:00 am ]
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one itis cure it fuck her and ditch her if u get attached just get more girls that are hot and u get comfortable around every girl and never again oneitis also if u actually like this girl do wat u want and dont ditch obv lol :P

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