personally, i do not approach strangers and dance with them right off the bat, when im in a club, i dance by myself (still in teh crown obviously) but just enjoying myself and the environment, keeping in mind my energy level (as to not bring down the ppl around me) . by dancing alone and still apear to be having more fun than nearly everyone else, you convey higher value and alpha male characteristics (you can stand on your own, you are fun and energy appropriate, et c.) I have found that in doing this, 8s, 9s and even some bold 10s will come up to ME and start grinding/dancing. - that is my stance on dancing with girls without first talking to them.
when it comes to "i opened the girls by the bar and then they asked me to dance..." i would prolly dance with them, but first id throw up a hoop, like "i dont know... i might make you look bad" (not completely serious of course) or somthing along those lines. then i would have them walk with me to the dance floor and proceed dancing.
other things :
while dancing, there is NO need to talk, so you dont need to worry about vocal communication (talking), but focus all of your energy toward physical communication (body language, flowing movements, posture, et c.)
notice how i said "have them walk with me", this is completely different than walking with them. know the difference! in the former, you are in front and not facing them, maybe holding hands with one or two of them, maybe arm in arm with one or two of them, but it is clear you are the leader. in the former, youre physical communicaiton shows ur a wimp.
hope this helps!
happy gaming! 
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I know I could of danced with them but I didn't know how to approach total strangers physically to dance with them... Any help? Thanks