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| Author: | Molson [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 8:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When you're the only guy... |
Alright. I have a female roommate, which is the greatest thing ever. (So far I've met probably 20+ girls from her). Twice so far, we've gone to two parties where I am literally the only guy with 10-15 girls. I know, a PUA's dream. Both times it has been a pre-drink at the house, then going downtown to a club. I am good at the club scene, I know how to dance and get told I am good. I even isolated the birthday girl last night for a good dance. But my question is this: When there are 10 girls yelling and screaming in the kitchen, and you only know one or two of them, how do you DHV... or for that sake, even get involved. They were mostly talking/gossiping etc that girls do, but also half playing this Never have i ever card game. That was the onyl time I really got to say or do much ie when a card like "I've never stuffed my bra" came up I'd say GUILTY! and everyone would laugh, etc. But other than that I could not isolate, period, and couldn't seem to get too many words in. They were just loud and pretty involved with each other. I was as confident as I could be, I stood within their cirlce (everyone was kind of hovering around the kitchen island) felt generally accepted, made my presence known, but really didn't feel like I could contribute anything to 10 loud crazy girls. So any tips? I feel like this situation will arise again. |
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| Author: | Athar [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 2:32 am ] |
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Perfect situation. Don't do any braggerty DHV stories unless you got a wing who can do them for you, just do some cold reading or magic tricks. If you can't do those, just be flirty, cocky and funny, pull some routines and be the really laid back "I don't give a fuck" guy. It's almost impossible to not get laid after a 10 girl 1-3 guy vorspiel. |
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| Author: | Reactionz [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 4:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 5 sisters |
I think i have this one covered! Growing up with 5 sisters basically means i kno alot more about the female enviroment than i should. Pre selection in this is key. You should become one of the girls, it sosunds counter preductive to be a 'girl.' However it means you are always involved and then if you sleep with one of them then the others won't gang up against you. The fact is you need to be one of the group. Anticipate there ideas and seggest before them. "Oh lets have a film night" great one. Think about it, if you have that much comfort all you have to do is MAKE sure you don't fall in the freinds zone with them all. ACTUALLY fuckl that. BEcome there freinds and just go out with them and use them for social proof. You will get laid like a rock star. See adam lyons and his group of girls for further details. JESUS go with me on this and you will be thanking me |
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| Author: | Molson [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:52 pm ] |
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I understand it, that's not really the problem though. The problem is, WHAT do you do when there are 10 girls screaming their face off and you maybe only know one or two of them? You can't really demonstrate anything or build yourself up because they really don't even see you at that point. You try and participate but it's a lot harder. I'd actually prefer some guys in the set! |
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| Author: | tekryder [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 7:01 am ] |
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you build off the ones you know, like say you know stephanie, go up to the other ones "hey who are you? im stephanies friend aint she cool? " yadda yadda, if your a friend, they should think your OK than |
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| Author: | Radham [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 9:49 am ] |
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i think his point is that he cant really say anything because the girls are talking to much, i think that magic tricks or the cube or something would work good here because you get their attention but it allows you to be one on one with one girl at a time. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 10:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 sisters |
Quote: I think i have this one covered! Ditto. Trying to isolate them, especially during the pre-drink meet up is for the most part useless. Its far better to build up comfort and become one of the "girls", than trying to isolate any of them. As you said if another girl sees this guy walking into a club/bar with 10 girls around him and he is not looking gay in the slightest that is huge ass social proof. As no girl can't but wonder who the hell the guy is with 10 girls around him.
Growing up with 5 sisters basically means i kno alot more about the female enviroment than i should. Pre selection in this is key. You should become one of the girls, it sosunds counter preductive to be a 'girl.' However it means you are always involved and then if you sleep with one of them then the others won't gang up against you. The fact is you need to be one of the group. Anticipate there ideas and seggest before them. "Oh lets have a film night" great one. Think about it, if you have that much comfort all you have to do is MAKE sure you don't fall in the freinds zone with them all. ACTUALLY fuckl that. BEcome there freinds and just go out with them and use them for social proof. You will get laid like a rock star. See adam lyons and his group of girls for further details. JESUS go with me on this and you will be thanking me |
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| Author: | selfawareafc [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:38 pm ] |
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I've had this situation in college... I'd just chill in the pre-game environment and be fun when you are asked. You don't want to risk screwing up with one of the friends in the group or you'll be made fun of or will lose access. I'd rather just show up to the bar with ten girls, then you have tons of social proof all night with randomly talking to them and pulling them aside. You'll look cool to any girl that you're sarging, and I guarantee you'll eventually get a random drunk fuck out of one of the friend group. |
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| Author: | Rome-EO [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 9:26 pm ] |
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i think reactions is right fucking trying to hook up in a group of girls use them for social proof an get laid by every other girl... and this might also help set up a jealousy plot line for you to get laid by the girls in the group later on down the line, as your getting pre selection from girls outside there group... |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:20 pm ] |
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Quote: i think reactions is right fucking trying to hook up in a group of girls use them for social proof an get laid by every other girl... and this might also help set up a jealousy plot line for you to get laid by the girls in the group later on down the line, as your getting pre selection from girls outside there group... That jealous can also get him kick out of the group as well.
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| Author: | Rome-EO [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:44 pm ] |
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i disagree they wont have any reason to have him kicked out especially if its jealousy towards a person outside the group... i mean people get togeather thats kinda life and girls are use to dealing with this.. i mean i couldnt go around being pissed at every time a girl i thought was hot got a boyfriend... or a fling... that wouldnt make sense and further more you should take some time to read into some links on jealousy plot lines  they work wonders for building attraction.
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| Author: | jurupa [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 12:53 am ] |
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Quote: i disagree they wont have any reason to have him kicked out I agree. I was more referring to jealously to other girls within the same group, not to one outside of the group.
especially if its jealousy towards a person outside the group... i mean people get togeather thats kinda life and girls are use to dealing with this.. i mean i couldnt go around being pissed at every time a girl i thought was hot got a boyfriend... or a fling... that wouldnt make sense and further more you should take some time to read into some links on jealousy plot lines they work wonders for building attraction. |
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