my tipp, get totally drunk together... and then just incidentally come to that topic
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| Author: | foxindirtbox [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to pull a just a friend? |
I've made a big mistake and need to turn it around! I moved in with 2 girls but treated them both as just friends, only I've realised that one of them is perfect for me! Now the problem is that she sees me as just a friend - I think - and I have no idea how to turn it around. The status is that- her body language gives no iois, but the only iod I get is her saying she will set me up with her friends. I've used a lot of qualification on her but no other game at all. I tried to bring in a bit of c&f but it just felt weird and this weirdness probably came through -dlv. She probably has a feeling I like her, but my other SPAM probably also has that feeling (I wasn't moving in with ugly girls!). She knows my best friend really likes her, although he wouldn't stand in the way. I break rapport with her through teasing. She thinks I may still be in love with my ex. She is moving country soon but she is special enough that I would do anything for her. She is a genuine good girl, yet knows that I sleep with several different women. So, my first question is - how do I know if she sees me as just a friend without making it weird? Secondly, how do I change it up a gear again without it being weird? Can I start using routines now or is there no point as she already knows my value? Or should I just forget game, grow a set and just tell her face to face and risk living in awkwardness? I was thinking a way to progress it would be saying: "I was thinking about how anytime I say I like anything you like it to. It must either be fate or you're stalking me, but since I don't believe in fate, I've decided you're in love with me" I'm sure I don't need to tell you that this is massive to me, I'd really appreciate advice! |
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| Author: | Coolkid [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 10:31 pm ] |
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my tipp, get totally drunk together... and then just incidentally come to that topic
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| Author: | foxindirtbox [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 9:41 am ] |
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Haha thanks, but I'm not sure if getting her wasted is really the best option if I really like her |
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| Author: | jstupid [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:53 pm ] |
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Well to start with. A good friend once told me never enter the friend zone directly, and i quote "you either fight me or fuck me" given that you live with them you dont want to start wake in child's pool. best way i think is to show her a side she isnt expecting. if your quite bring her out drinking. if your outrageous and funny show her some sensitivity. also a little kino goes a long way. when showing the new side its the best time imo to kino. new emotions toward you will make her feel differently. hope i helped thats a tough one. |
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| Author: | foxindirtbox [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 9:27 pm ] |
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Hey thanks, that's good advice. It's somuch different kinoing a friend instead of a randomer at a bar, but I'll give it a go |
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| Author: | Voodoo.Fresh [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 3:43 pm ] |
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Ramp up the sex talk and tention: use dirty jokes talk about sex more also, false disqualify don't label things and don't do the talk, I don't think anything good can come out of such a thing |
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| Author: | foxindirtbox [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 5:47 pm ] |
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Ok, I have messed it up. I got wasted and told her and all her friends exactly how I feel, but not before getting rejected by her friend. She didn't react at all to it, she has shown no interest but a different friend of hers told me to play it cool but don't give up. Now I'm completely lost help? |
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| Author: | Voodoo.Fresh [ Sat Sep 26, 2009 10:24 pm ] |
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Cut the drinking and find a new target. Three monthes after the Fclose think about your future |
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