PUA Forum :: confidence really is everything.

& I mean it.

I get told I look good, dress good, know how to talk to girls, have a sexy voice on the phone, get told I'm funny, smarter than most guys, different, & real.

I have never kissed a girl & had her say it was bad. Matter fact I usually ask and most girls gimmie a 9 or 10... the last one said I was the best she ever had.

& I have social anxiety, not sure where it came from, probably my parents, or the fact that I got picked on as a child maybe both, but I'm uncomfortable as hell in social situations when I have every reason not to be & it renders everything I mentioned useless a lot of times.

I try hard to push threw & ignore the awkwardness but its hard as hell. Especially that I'm already a perfectionist & lil awkward moments feel like a waste... all I know, is its not gonna stay like this. Pua, no pua, regardless. This is bigger than females.

I'm just venting here.

But on the bright side, if any of you feel like you lack anything I mentioned before... just know that if a lack of confidence can checkmate all of them, an excess of it will more than likely make up for any of'em...

Author:	ImNaShitFool [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:54 pm ]
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& I mean it. I get told I look good, dress good, know how to talk to girls, have a sexy voice on the phone, get told I'm funny, smarter than most guys, different, & real. I have never kissed a girl & had her say it was bad. Matter fact I usually ask and most girls gimmie a 9 or 10... the last one said I was the best she ever had. & I have social anxiety, not sure where it came from, probably my parents, or the fact that I got picked on as a child maybe both, but I'm uncomfortable as hell in social situations when I have every reason not to be & it renders everything I mentioned useless a lot of times. I try hard to push threw & ignore the awkwardness but its hard as hell. Especially that I'm already a perfectionist & lil awkward moments feel like a waste... all I know, is its not gonna stay like this. Pua, no pua, regardless. This is bigger than females. I'm just venting here. But on the bright side, if any of you feel like you lack anything I mentioned before... just know that if a lack of confidence can checkmate all of them, an excess of it will more than likely make up for any of'em...

Author:	BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:09 pm ]
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Quote: & I mean it. I get told I look good, dress good, know how to talk to girls, have a sexy voice on the phone, get told I'm funny, smarter than most guys, different, & real. I have never kissed a girl & had her say it was bad. Matter fact I usually ask and most girls gimmie a 9 or 10... the last one said I was the best she ever had. & I have social anxiety, not sure where it came from, probably my parents, or the fact that I got picked on as a child maybe both, but I'm uncomfortable as hell in social situations when I have every reason not to be & it renders everything I mentioned useless a lot of times. I try hard to push threw & ignore the awkwardness but its hard as hell. Especially that I'm already a perfectionist & lil awkward moments feel like a waste... all I know, is its not gonna stay like this. Pua, no pua, regardless. This is bigger than females. I'm just venting here. But on the bright side, if any of you feel like you lack anything I mentioned before... just know that if a lack of confidence can checkmate all of them, an excess of it will more than likely make up for any of'em... Showing confidence and being internally competent is more important than being confident. Mystery admits he gets anxious whenever approaches sets, AFTER ALL THESE YEARS. Just don't show it/ try to make it out as if it's nothing. As if you're there to have fun and you don't care about the outcome.

Author:	ImNaShitFool [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:26 pm ]
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Lol, nowww I get real advice.. Well my bad in advance for when u read the other thread lol

Author:	BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 2:07 pm ]
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Quote: Lol, nowww I get real advice.. Well my bad in advance for when u read the other thread lol Sure I admit that last piece of advice I gave you was kind of confusing because I half read half posted finish read finish posted. But hey I'm just trying to help people out.

Author:	ImNaShitFool [ Sat Sep 19, 2009 7:31 am ]
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Yeah, its cool, I just felt like u just took me as a chump cuz of the level the q. Was at.... I know what I'm doing... just wasent sure about that one specific part... it worked out ok anyway, cuz later that day she told me she liked me & w/e... & I said since niether of us wants a relationship we should meet each other half way.. & she was kinda ehh.. About it.. But its no biggie, I'm friends wit chick, I'm not tryin to marry the bitch, but ion wanna treat her like a smut either... Anyways yeah, u were deff. Right in ur advice here tho, my prob aint really with girls tho, I just opened a set... once I got past AA it was smooottthh sailing... & I got numbers easy... my problem is a lil deeper I think, I think I fear judgement & embarasment on a different level... cuz I prob couldn't open anything in anywhere crowded but alone, I can kill... I gotta work on it still.

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