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| Author: | Chillburg [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 10:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | HB in library |
So as we speak im sitting in the school's library and about 8meters away from me is a cute girl that is just my style (bit alternative, not too much) she's sitting with her side toward me, so i look at the right side of her face/her back. Just sitting here browsing the forum I notice her turning all the way around and then just stares at me for a second or 4, it happened 5 times now in an hour and I can tell she's interested (cus Im the only guy in a 3m radius around me). I look at her emotionless but i just dont know where to take it from here...my clubgame is way better than this, but this is fucking failure... Everyone's supposed to be quiet in here so I just cant walk up to her and do a routine or open...besides, im chicken shit at the moment. What could I do in this situation? |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 3:20 pm ] |
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If it's dead obvious to you that she's checking you out (and you've got the butterflies etc. cause you know it's like, on), that's easy, just get up and go sit near them and call them out on it. Be friendly, and put on your quiet "library voice" but act like you don't really know why she's looking at you, and you think it's funny. Eg. "You keep looking at me, what's up with that?" No doubt she will not be able to give you a direct answer, so be sure to bring whatever it is with you and just change the conversation to be about that. "Was just reading this article, god celebrities are crazy, look at this..." you could keep showing her things, ask her what she's doing there, just roll with it, cause then it's whatever you usually do for night game but more laid back and slow. Oh I envisaged you were at different tables reading. You were at two different computers now that I read it more carefully. Same frame though - if someone's being obvious, you be obvious right back. Catch her looking at you again, and get her attention, grinning at her but with a quizzical expression, and once she keeps looking at you to see what you'll do next - point right at her. From here it depends on the situation. I've done this and I leant closer and asked here where I've seen her before (that was the situation). In yours I would beckon her over and show a funny youtube link or whatever (which I would pull up before that), something I've seen recently that I know is funny. You'd be surprised what you can get away with if you act like you already know someone - it's like you automatically make this magical friend bubble that makes everyone think you already know each other and neither of you will be afraid to relax and behave normally. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 5:19 pm ] |
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thanks a lot man that was actually very helpful, I did feel those butterflies and I wish I could have read it while I was still there! I think I missed my window because when I saw her later on during lunch i caught her staring at me again, but an hour later at the next lunchbreak I was sitting with my friends 1 table away from her, in front of her, but she didnt look that interested anymore, just a few glances...or maybe she didnt want to make it that obvious i dont know. Next time I will surely try out your suggestions and if I ever catch her doing it again, or run into her in a bar, she's so fucking mine! |
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| Author: | Conker [ Tue Sep 15, 2009 1:14 pm ] |
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Yeah you can still get her - the interest is still there, she just probably thinks you don't like her  or is trying to not be obvious about it anymore. Don't worry that she hasn't managed to keep up the constant staring, who would?? you already know what's going on now.
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| Author: | seduction82 [ Thu Sep 17, 2009 3:08 pm ] |
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Hey you don't have to be dead loud and obvious to eveyone around you and bust out some routine. Its clear this girl is into you. Whats more important is that your body language is 'loud' and speaks volumes even though you're voice may not be because you are in a library. Just go up and say hey. If you show that you are comfortable with it then she will be - its all about frame |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:42 pm ] |
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you're totally right, thanks for the suggestions guys I will keep these memorised from now on |
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