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Author:  Coolkid [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  is she using me

hey guys,

so: i had two dates with this shy girl A.. However, even so i never got a k-close, she is attracted to me... juts a bit shy!

now i moved to london. and today via msn... we where having a chat. I wrote here: "you should come visit me, i need somebody too cook for me"
she responded that she really wanted to visit me with a friend next month...


my sticking point... why would she want to visit me with a friend...?I have a one room apartment so i believe she is not comming over to f-close me, oherwise she wouldnt bring her friend along...

is she using me?

Author:  theyreredhot [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 11:07 pm ]
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Coolkid:

I don't really understand what you think she would be using you for. It doesn't really seem like there's much of anything going on here. If she visits you and you hook up, great for you! Otherwise, I don't think you're being used. You're not giving her money or advice about other guys, you're not trying to talk to her constantly while she is out having a good time. I don't even see any oneitis here.

Maybe the friend is a girl. Maybe a hot girl. Maybe a threesome.

It's all golden.

Author:  pussymonster [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Cooking

Go for the threesome. I seriously don't know what you mean when you say she's using you.

Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: is she using me

Quote:
hey guys,

so: i had two dates with this shy girl A.. However, even so i never got a k-close, she is attracted to me... juts a bit shy!

now i moved to london. and today via msn... we where having a chat. I wrote here: "you should come visit me, i need somebody too cook for me"
she responded that she really wanted to visit me with a friend next month...


my sticking point... why would she want to visit me with a friend...?I have a one room apartment so i believe she is not comming over to f-close me, oherwise she wouldnt bring her friend along...

is she using me?
Don't think like that. You said it yourself: She is shy. Maybe she just needs a girlfriend to come with her.

Girls do that, so they feel protected and safe. She's just insecure about herself.

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