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| Author: | HiLo [ Mon Aug 31, 2009 2:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | I have an event coming up, help! |
I'm promoting a really big show coming up with a popular national act that draws lots of people, and my band will be opening... sounds great right? well... EVERY girl i'm gaming has found out about the show and will all be there at the same time. The one i have the best bet with is a girl i met a month ago when i played out of state, she's driving 6 hours with a few other friends and they're crashing at my place. and other than that, there's 4 girls i'm currently gaming, and i know for a fact i will be introduced to a bunch of new girls that same night. i definitely want to try F closing with the out of state girl, but i don't want to ruin things with the other girls. what should i do? -Ben |
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| Author: | -Achilles [ Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:21 am ] |
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If there will be many girls u know and get along well with, or even better are attracted to you, you can apply flawlessly several jealousy threads. It will be specially good if u've been gaming 9s or 10s and they are going there. read into that, it is in my opinion the most effective strategy for this scenario. by far. GL man -Teague |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Aug 31, 2009 4:22 pm ] |
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I am only just having this start to happen (multiple girls I like being in the same outing) and my gut feeling is to get them to know each other and get along with each other. I just think it would be bad if they were pitted against each other. |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 8:16 am ] |
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Confidence. Be friendly. Don't be afraid to let the girls see you with other girls, it just gives you social proof (thats a good thing). And what you can do is give a one armed side hug and kiss on the top of the head to all your ladies as you make your way thru, not giving any too much attention. They will be happy for you and your popularity, not concerned with who you hugged the most after the show. PB41 |
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| Author: | Coolkid [ Fri Sep 11, 2009 2:57 pm ] |
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just send the other girls home! |
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| Author: | Storyteller [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 6:46 pm ] |
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I'm a musician too, and I can empathize. At one of my CD release parties a few years ago, I had 4 ex-girlfriends, and 3 HBs that I was currently working. It can be really intimidating...I had a mini-freakout when I saw the list of confirmed resos. However, you can make this all work in your favor. Remind them that you have to be a social butterfly that evening, because there are going to be industry contacts that you need to shake hands with and charm the pants off of. Each girl will say, verbatim, "Oh, I totally understand. Go do your thing, I just wanted to say that was awesome!" Then, give something (a bracelet, the hat you're wearing, the setlist) to the one or two that you really want THAT evening. You: "Are you a thief?" HB: Not at all. You: Good, can you hang on to the setlist for me? It's really important to me, and I just know I'm gonna lose it. HB: Oh, absolutely. (she'll smile) I would do this with the out of state girl, that way there's no chance for her to leave, no matter how much you ignore her. And then immediately walk away. This night is built on takeaways. You get to DHV simply by performing well, you create a high buying temperature for yourself, and then let everyone know that you only have a moment to speak with them, but you'll "be right back." When they watch you speak to other girls, and behave the same way, they won't be offended, because you're not playing anyone. You treat everyone EXACTLY the same way. I used to tell my ex-girlfriend that it was "my job to flirt with girls after the shows because they have mommy and daddy's money and I need to sell CD's. It's marketing and business strategy." Memorize that. Practice saying it. Have fun being the center of everyone's attention that night and hey, break both legs. Happy Sarging. |
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