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Author:  Caillou [ Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Can't F Close
What's going on guys,

So I've been having a little thing here with a girl who I have quite a bit of history with. Long story short, I used to be infatuated with her... we tried some shit... didn't work out. Then I found this community and everything's going 100X smoother. The problem here is we're both leaving for university and I'm trying not to get attached BUT at the same time I really just wanna do her once before I say goodbye once and for all.

I've been able to finger her, and she's given be "some help" down there too LOL, but everytime I mention trying the whole thing she says no. For example yesterday, I decided I'd take her out to dinner for once and then out to a nearby lake. She seemed to enjoy the whole deal. When we got back to the car and started makin out it seemed like it took me all of a minute to get her soaking wet. Everything seemed perfect, we had music, under the stars, near a lake and no one was around. Still... she just wouldn't give.

Dont judge me for a dick here. I do like spending time with her... but I'm also 18 and am... how do I put it... a horndog? aha.

Anyways, help is appreciated.
Author:  Coolkid [ Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:39 am ]
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seems like atypical case of last minute resistance!!! try looking in some other forum sections for solution to LMR.... they have tons of tips
cheers
Author:  noiss [ Sun Aug 30, 2009 9:34 am ]
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seems like atypical case of last minute resistance!!! try looking in some other forum sections for solution to LMR.... they have tons of tips
cheers
This.

Here's a nice thing I picked up from Mystery (or was it style? Well MM none-the-less). If she starts flaking out and verbally says no act like it doesn't bother you at all and neg, neg, neg. Kill the mood and occupy yourself with something nearby. The trick is to not come off as spiteful or angry but to act as if you didn't mind one bit that she just turned you down. Ask her to join in on whatever you're doing and act normal. The first time try freezing her out for a good 2-3 minutes before you start making out and getting it on again. If you experience even more LMR then rinse & repeat the above, each time adding time to the freeze out.

Good luck mate ;)
Author:  Caillou [ Sun Aug 30, 2009 7:58 pm ]
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K thx boys I'll try the freeze out. Usually I just continue on win the making out and don't show any emotion when she says no. It's wierd I'd I've fingered her and she's finewith givingme handjobs but no further. Should I just take my pants off myself or something LOL and try a more forceful approach?
Author:  -Achilles [ Sun Aug 30, 2009 8:28 pm ]
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seems like atypical case of last minute resistance!!! try looking in some other forum sections for solution to LMR.... they have tons of tips
cheers
This.

Here's a nice thing I picked up from Mystery (or was it style? Well MM none-the-less). If she starts flaking out and verbally says no act like it doesn't bother you at all and neg, neg, neg. Kill the mood and occupy yourself with something nearby. The trick is to not come off as spiteful or angry but to act as if you didn't mind one bit that she just turned you down. Ask her to join in on whatever you're doing and act normal. The first time try freezing her out for a good 2-3 minutes before you start making out and getting it on again. If you experience even more LMR then rinse & repeat the above, each time adding time to the freeze out.

Good luck mate ;)
yeah thats Freeze Out Theory 101..

The bottom line of this is a kind of implicit punishment, as she was having a good time but her attitude killed it. but this punishment must be implicit, as in you didnt mean to make her feel that way, she just turned you off and those are the consequences.

Now, this doesnt mean, stop trying to have sex with her and start talking about your day. This means ignore her. Not like you suddenly hate her, but like u suddenly lost a whole deal of interest in her. she says no, you go "Its ok" and go to your laptop to check you mail. She will feel awkward and guilty for the situation she just created, because all in all one has the right to be turned off and act like that.

The main idea in freeze outs is "No Biggy". It doesnt make you mad, it doesnt make you anxious, you just find it weird and uncommon for a girl to reject having sex with you. So if she asks "are you upset?" you go "no Im cool, its just that you turned me off. I aint horny anymore..". Even though in your head and your pants u are like "FUCK!! what the hell woman??" on the out side you are like "no biggy".


-Teague
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