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| Author: | deftonesfan4l1fe [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 1:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | People keep making fun of me... |
Ok so lately as I've gotten more skilled in the game I've noticed that men begin to criticize me, trying to put me down, which obviously, in turn, causes the women to look at me with lower value because I'm no longer the AMOG. First question, when men do this, especially in a group, how do you deal? Also, some women turn very bitchy real quick. I don't know if its a shit test or not. I assume that my negs may be too harsh or I'm going for women with low self esteem. How do you go from getting shit tested to back to normal? |
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| Author: | 870 [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 3:38 pm ] |
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Dude, have you ever considered the possibility that they're just kidding around with you like every other guy has since the beginning of time? Don't take it personally, and definitely don't take it seriously. When a guy tries to tool me, my stock response is to laugh. I might say something clever back, I might ignore it after that, but I never take it seriously. Your "value" dropping in the eyes of the girl is a response to the way you react to these guys, not what the guys themselves are doing. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | deftonesfan4l1fe [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 7:04 pm ] |
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when the entire group, over time, begins doing it, it damages morale. I always laugh it off and never take it seriously, but it does begin to wear on you. I'm thinking its either jealousy, because most of the people I hang with DONT know the game, or I really am just being an easy target. Who knows |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 8:13 pm ] |
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Hmm, I've had people tease me a bit sometimes, but normally I just laugh and just say a witty remark back. Just keep cool, don't lose your temper and try and find a way to laugh it off or even better, make your rival look an idiot. |
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| Author: | ace_theory [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 11:28 am ] |
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One of the biggest qualities of inner game is to be unresponsive and not seek exterior validation. This is where this falls in. Just don't let it phase you - tell them you are having a good fucking time, then take the girls away from them. Nuff said. |
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| Author: | noiss [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 7:22 pm ] |
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Quote: Dude, have you ever considered the possibility that they're just kidding around with you like every other guy has since the beginning of time? Don't take it personally, and definitely don't take it seriously. When a guy tries to tool me, my stock response is to laugh. I might say something clever back, I might ignore it after that, but I never take it seriously.
Yep. That's so true. Before I even got into gaming I used to get TONNES of shit from guys and it wasn't until a girl I knew pointed it out that I realized it myself. I was getting shit from other guys because I was doing better than them with women. As 870 said, it doesn't matter if you get shit from other guys as long as you can stay untouched from it. Just brush it off man and you'll find that your game will be coming back.Your "value" dropping in the eyes of the girl is a response to the way you react to these guys, not what the guys themselves are doing. Your boy, 870 Good luck. |
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| Author: | Corey [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 7:55 pm ] |
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Tell them to fuck off or respond to them in some way. Actually just letting it not get to you isn't good after some while. |
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